Friday Sharing March 20 2015 Nuki Prihatini The

Friday Sharing March 20, 2015 Nuki Prihatini

The Video • What idea can you get from this video? • What do you think of main female’s and male’s characters on that video? • https: //www. youtube. com/watch? v=W 3 psy. A 8 XBnk

Why do we gossip?

Some Answers • https: //www. youtube. com/watch? v=6 WQx 3 e. Pg. Hu. Q

3 Kinds of Gossipers

1. The “bless their heart” gossip • This is the person who has something kind of mean to say about somebody but they don’t want to appear to be spreading gossip, so they always punctuate their thoughts with the phrase, “bless their heart. ”

2. The “news flash” gossip • These are the people who just love to talk and they just kind of talk because that’s what they do. • This type of person isn’t too worried about accuracy either. They just feel it is their duty to inform everyone about other people’s lives.

3. The “I’m just telling the truth” gossip • Just because something is true does not give us permission to share it with others – it still could be potentially harmful and hurtful information. • We need to check our motives when sharing a story. • Read more: http: //kevinmartineau. ca/gossip/#ixzz 3 UGUc. QRAY

Reminder 1

Al Hujarat – The Rooms (49): 6 • Hai orang-orang yang beriman, jika datang kepadamu orang yang membawa suatu berita, maka telitilah kebenarannya, agar kamu tidak mencelakakan suatu kaum karena suatu kebodohan (kecerobohan), yang menyebabkan kamu menyesal atas perbuatanmu itu. • O you who have believed, if there comes to you a disobedient one with information, investigate, lest you harm a people out of ignorance and become, over what you have done, regretful.

An Nuur – The Light (24): 15 • (Ingatlah) di waktu kamu menerima berita (bohong) itu dari mulut ke mulut dan kamu katakan dengan mulutmu apa yang tidak kamu ketahui sedikit pun, dan kamu menganggapnya suatu hal yang remeh. Padahal dalam pandangan Allah, itu adalah besar. • When you received it with your tongues and said with your mouths that of which you had no knowledge and thought it was insignificant while it was, in the sight of Allah , tremendous.

Al Hujarat – The Rooms (49): 11 • Hai orang-orang yang beriman, janganlah suatu kaum merendahkan kaum yang lain, boleh jadi yang ditertawakan (diolok-olok) itu lebih baik dari mereka. • Dan jangan pula sekumpulan perempuan merendahkan kumpulan lainnya, boleh jadi yang direndahkan itu lebih baik. • Dan janganlah suka mencela dirimu sendiri dan jangan memanggil dengan gelar yang buruk. • Seburuk-buruk panggilan adalah (panggilan) yang buruk sesudah iman dan barangsiapa yang tidak bertobat, maka mereka itulah orang-orang yang zalim. • O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one's] faith. And whoever does not repent - then it is those who are the wrongdoers.

Al Hujarat – The Rooms (49): 12 • Hai orang-orang yang beriman, jauhilah kebanyakan prasangka (kecurigaan), karena sebagian dari prasangka itu dosa. • Dan janganlah mencari-cari keburukan orang dan janganlah menggunjingkan satu sama lain. • Adakah seorang diantara kamu yang suka memakan daging saudaranya yang sudah mati? • Maka tentulah kamu merasa jijik kepadanya. • Dan bertakwalah kepada Allah. Sesungguhnya Allah Maha Penerima Taubat lagi Maha Penyayang. • O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.

Reminder 2