Parents Pupu Platter An OHA Parenting Project Parents
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Parents’ Pupu Platter An OHA Parenting Project
Parents’ Pupu Platter Session Two: Communicating Effectively with Your Child —Building Relationships and Setting Boundaries
‘Ōlelo No‘eau He ‘a‘ali‘i ku makani mai au; ‘a‘ohe makani nana e kula‘i. I am a wind resisting ‘a‘ali‘i. No gale can push me over. I can hold my own in the face of difficulties.
Session Objectives Topics covered in this session will help you: use key verbal strategies to set expectations and resolve conflicts with your child. identify verbal and nonverbal communication skills that support relationship building. identify key community resources available for family and parenting support.
Ground Rules • Privacy • Respect
Spaghetti Tower
The Spaghetti Tower Your challenge: Build the tallest free standing spaghetti tower 0: 00– 2: 00 minutes You can speak to each other, but you CANNOT touch the materials 2: 01– 6: 00 minutes You can touch the materials, but you CANNOT speak to each other
The Spaghetti Tower 1) What was the easiest part of this activity? 2) What was the most frustrating? 3) How did you communicate without words? 4) Did group members respond differently? 5) How do you feel about your team’s tower?
Communication
Practical Communication Tips Practice on easy messages
Practical Communication Tips Practice on easy messages Make sure someone’s home
Practical Communication Tips Practice on easy messages Make sure someone’s home Encourage reflection & expression
Practical Communication Tips Practice on easy messages Make sure someone’s home Encourage reflection & expression Use public and private comments wisely
Practical Communication Tips Practice on easy messages Make sure someone’s home Encourage reflection & expression Use public and private comments wisely Understand avoid the coercive cycle
The Coercive Cycle Adult makes request Child doesn’t do what was asked Child reacts with hostility Adult reacts with hostility or withdraws
RPM 3 Respond Prevent Monitor Mentor Model
RESPOND 1) Respond—Don’t React
RESPOND 1) Respond—Don’t React 2) Respond Appropriately
PREVENT 1) Learn To Spot Possible Problems
PREVENT 1) Learn To Spot Possible Problems 2) Learn To Work through Problems
MONITOR 1) Be Aware
MONITOR 1) Be Aware 2) Set Limits—Don’t Be Too Rigid
MENTOR 1) Guide.
MENTOR 1) Guide. 2) Work together.
MODEL 1) Do as you say AND say as you do.
MODEL 1) Do as you say AND say as you do. 2) Perfection IS NOT the goal.
The Biggest Messages 1) Love/Support 2) Try & Try Again & Again
Activity
Personal Reflection
Small Group
Small Group 1. What was one of your biggest discoveries so far? 2. Looking back, what personality traits did you see as your group communicated to build your spaghetti tower? 3. What is a communication challenge in your family? Brainstorm with others on how you can address the challenge.
Ha‘ilono
Ha‘ilono: Telling the News • What were common themes you discovered within your group? • Did your group have any “a-ha” moments?
Community Resources
Closing/Evaluation
Parents’ Pupu Platter Session Two: Communicating Effectively with Your Child —Building Relationships and Setting Boundaries
- Oha
- Dr suri endocrinologist
- Daniel darkes
- What are the basic principles of platter presentation
- Silver platter doctrine
- Function of hard
- Parents' pronunciation
- Fruits platters presentation
- Healthy mind platter
- Parent frida kahlo
- Parents parents
- Fiche frida kahlo
- Parenting with love and logic summary
- 4 types of parenting styles
- 4 parenting styles
- Laissez-faire parenting
- Lemasters and defrain parenting styles
- Guidance vs punishment
- Theoretical framework on parental involvement
- Parenting matrix
- Parenting philosophy
- Corporate parenting meaning
- Freud and parenting
- 4 levels of parenting
- Parenting is a journey
- Corporate parenting
- The association for successful parenting
- Parenting philosophy quiz
- Pams assessment pictures
- Slides templates
- Coupling stage family life cycle
- Combination related unrelated diversification strategies
- Objectives of parenting styles
- Trauma informed parenting discipline
- Parenting styles scenarios/worksheet
- Galinsky's stages of parenting
- Parenting not great
- Chapter 2 responsibilities of parenting worksheet
- Good thesis statements for to kill a mockingbird