The Mentoring Relationship SESSION 3 As iron sharpens

Qualities of a Good Mentor Session 3 1. A good mentor is a GOOD

What to Avoid Session 3 1. Giving advice too freely. 1. Criticizing. 1. Rescuing.

Qualities of a Good Mentee Session 3 1. A good mentee is one who

Qualities of a Bad Mentee Session 3 1. They are overly dependent on their

Relational Needs Session 3 SPIRITUAL LIFE “ME” FAMILY LIFE MINISTRY

Learning Needs Session 3 KNOWLEDGE UNDERSTANDING SKILL

Relational Do’s and Don’t’s Session 3 1. RESPECT: Don‘t belittle. 2. VALUE: Don’t devalue.

Skill-Related Do’s and Don’t’s Sesión 3 1. LISTEN: Don’t talk. 2. ASK: Don’t tell.

Skill-Related Do’s and Don’t’s Session 3 6. Give TIME: Don’t take short-cuts. 7. GUIDE:

Mentoring Covenant Session 3 GOD MENTOR MENTEE

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The Mentoring Relationship SESSION 3 “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another” Proverbs 27: 17 JUNE 2013

Qualities of a Good Mentor Session 3 1. A good mentor is a GOOD LISTENER. 2. A good mentor deals with the JUST-IN-TIME moments in life. 3. Good mentors are like MIDWIVES. 4. A good mentor helps a mentee SEE the OPTIONS. 5. A good mentor is an INSPIRER. 6. A good mentor is a CRITICAL THINKER.

What to Avoid Session 3 1. Giving advice too freely. 1. Criticizing. 1. Rescuing. 2. Building barriers unnecessarily. 1. Ignoring the “why” 2. Discounting.

Qualities of a Good Mentee Session 3 1. A good mentee is one who takes RESPONSIBILITY for his or her own LEARNING. 2. A good mentee is an ACTIVE LISTENER. 3. A good mentee is a PROACTIVE learner. 4. A good mentee is a LIFELONG learner. 5. A good mentee is TRANSPARENT.

Qualities of a Bad Mentee Session 3 1. They are overly dependent on their mentors for answers. 2. They don’t take the initiative to identify new areas that need to be covered due to unfolding circumstances in their lives. 3. They discount what their mentors say or suggest. 4. They fail to analyze the present situation and envision where they could be.

Relational Needs Session 3 SPIRITUAL LIFE “ME” FAMILY LIFE MINISTRY

Learning Needs Session 3 KNOWLEDGE UNDERSTANDING SKILL

Relational Do’s and Don’t’s Session 3 1. RESPECT: Don‘t belittle. 2. VALUE: Don’t devalue. 3. MODEL: Don’t meddle. 4. AFFIRM: Don’t condemn. 5. ENCOURAGE: Don’t discourage. 6. INSPIRE: Don’t deflate. 7. PRAY: Don’t patronize.

Skill-Related Do’s and Don’t’s Sesión 3 1. LISTEN: Don’t talk. 2. ASK: Don’t tell. 3. CLARIFY: Don’t claim. 4. DRAW out: Don’t pour in. 5. Have an AGENDA: Don’t go into a mentoring session without a plan of action.

Skill-Related Do’s and Don’t’s Session 3 6. Give TIME: Don’t take short-cuts. 7. GUIDE: Don’t goad. 8. REVIEW: Don’t fail to reinforce. 9. Be a RESOURCE: Don’t research. 10. Provide PERSPECTIVE: Don’t provide pat answers.

Mentoring Covenant Session 3 GOD MENTOR MENTEE