Mens Ministry Action Plan Create Momentum PURPOSE Sustain

Men’s Ministry Action Plan Create Momentum PURPOSE Sustain Momentum Capture Momentum

Men’s Ministry Action Plan This is a condensed version of a longer, 7 hour weekend retreat presentation, designed for UMM leadership teams. n It is a “Process” n It can assist you to design a men’s ministry from scratch or reevaluate what you are already doing. n

Men’s Ministry Action Plan n Overview n n n Catch a fresh vision for your men’s ministry Become kindred spirits with the other men who are visioning with you. Be challenged… n Vision? n Accomplish? n How will you know? n What kind of men do you want to produce? n Learn how to create momentum among men not currently involved in your men’s ministry.

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n A dynamic men’s ministry begins with a clear understanding of your purpose as men in the church A key question to ask… n What is the problem we are trying to solve by having a men’s ministry?

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n Why have a men’s ministry at all?

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n In developing a Purpose Statement you need to address… What problems do men face today? n What are the cornerstones of a successful men’s ministry? n

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n What problems do men face today?

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n To reach these men your men’s ministry must be built on a solid foundation. n The four cornerstones of a successful men’s ministry are: n Sr. Pastor’s support n A man passionate about reaching other men n A committed leadership team n The right strategy

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n Two fundamental principles to remember as you formulate a Purpose for your men’s ministry… n n It takes a long time to make a disciple Relationships

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n Consider the following scripture in developing your Purpose Statement: n n n n Proverbs 27: 17 Iron Sharpens Iron Matthew 28: 18 -20 Our Marching Orders Galatians 6: 1 -2 Body of Christ Working Together Ephesians 4: 11 -16 We can accomplish more together than by ourselves. Colossians 1: 28 -29 We should not strive in our own strength alone. Colossians 3: 19, 21 Husbands, love your wives Fathers, do not embitter your children 2 Timothy 2: 2 Our work is not done until new believers are able to make disciples of others.

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n Use of scripture in developing your men’s ministry Purpose Statement: n Proverbs 27: 17 17 As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another. NIV

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n The practical needs of men Ask… n Where do you feel the most pressure? n What would you want the church to do for you? n What is the most valuable experience you’ve had in the last year? n What was your worst experience last year?

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n Key Principles in formulating a Purpose Statement Be purpose driven rather than event driven n Be relationship based rather than task oriented n Make disciples and pray for workers n

The Big Picture of Men’s Ministry n What are the benefits of a Purpose Statement?

Creating Momentum in Your Men’s Ministry Create Momentum PURPOSE Sustain Momentum Capture Momentum

Creating Momentum in your Men’s Ministry n To get a stationary man moving we need an event that creates momentum. n Variety is the key… Appeal to the interests of all types of men

Creating Momentum in your Men’s Ministry n Reaching the five types of men Men who need a relationship with Christ n Cultural Christians (men on the “fringe”) – Matthew 13: 21 n Men who are disciples, or want to be n Men who are leaders, or want to be – 2 Tim 2: 2 n Men who are hurting – Gal 6: 2 n

Creating Momentum in your Men’s Ministry n Some ways to reach men on the “fringe” n n n n n Men’s issues Bowl game party A Christian professional athlete A couples dinner with a speaker A seminar on money and investing A time management speaker An inner city work project A weekday lunch outreach A father and son breakfast

Creating Momentum in your Men’s Ministry n n n Momentum events are motivational. Plan to hold an event not more than quarterly and not less than twice a year. Maintain variety in the “atmosphere” of these events.

Creating Momentum in your Men’s Ministry Create a warm, non-threatening environment. n Make it easy and comfortable for them. n

Creating Momentum in your Men’s Ministry n n n You will only reach men outside the church if men inside the church take the time to personally invite them. All your publicity can do is make it so attractive that men won’t say “no” when somebody ______ them. Don’t expect to just host an event and reach men on the fringe. If they aren’t ____, they won’t come. Communicate the vision so men in your church are eager to ______ other men.

Creating Momentum in your Men’s Ministry n Three key principles to remember as you try to reach men on the “fringe” of your church. Long-Term Low Pressure n Anger n What do men need that they are willing to do? n

Creating Momentum in your Men’s Ministry n Your action plan Create a list of regular and special events n The goal n It must achieve your men’s ministry purpose statement n Consider hosting a momentum-creating event such as a retreat. n

Capturing the Momentum You Create Momentum PURPOSE Sustain Momentum Capture Momentum

Capturing the Momentum You Create n How can you capture the momentum you create? n The two common mistakes following a good event are… n To do nothing, or n To attempt too much

Capturing the Momentum You Create n Capturing momentum (cont. ) n Find materials that raise significant issues and deal with them from a Biblical perspective. You should ask the men for a one-time commitment of four to six weeks, something that is “doable” for them.

Capturing the Momentum You Create n Short term curricula would be any 4 to 6 week study (a popular book, a book of the Bible) that can be discussed among a small group of men.

Sustaining the Momentum You Capture Create Momentum PURPOSE Sustain Momentum Capture Momentum

Sustaining the Momentum You Capture n How do you keep men involved after the novelty wears off? Create a variety of opportunities n Provide as many men’s growth and discipleship opportunities as possible. n Possible ways to engage men are Small Groups…

Sustaining the Momentum You Capture n Ongoing discipleship opportunities would consist of any program in the church that allows men to connect, to pray, to read and be accountable. This type of environment is the best facilitator for spiritual growth among men.

Sustaining the Momentum You Capture n Small Groups n n n n Bible studies Mentoring teenagers Issue oriented men’s curriculum Accountability groups Leadership development with the Pastor Prayer groups Issue oriented small groups studies Your ultimate goal should be to get men studying God’s Word with other men.

Sustaining the Momentum You Capture n Some key ideas to remember as you strive to capture and sustain the momentum you create. n n n Show men Christ versus fix their behavior True obedience flows from a heart of faith Invest in men who will invest in other men – 2 Tim 2: 2 (We Need F. A. T. * Men) Create a culture of prayer and love for God’s word The truth flows through our heads to our hearts and out our hands *Faithful, Available, and Teachable

Sustaining the Momentum You Capture n Great Special Events n Golf Outing n Father/Child Canoe Trip n Barbecue n Kickoff Event n Outreach Breakfast or Lunch Sporting Event n Fishing Outing n Financial Weekend n Regional Men’s Rally n Sweetheart Banquet n Super Bowl Party n

Summary Develop your “purpose” statement. n It takes an incredible amount of time, money, and energy to successfully “create” momentum n It would be such a waste not to proactively plan how to “capture” that momentum. n Near the end of your “capture” momentum step, you will want men to take the next step into discipleship groups to “sustain” the momentum. n

Men’s Ministry Action Plan Create Momentum PURPOSE Sustain Momentum Capture Momentum