INFORMAL SPEAKING Informal communication giving and receiving messages

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INFORMAL SPEAKING Informal communication: giving and receiving messages in casual, person interactions Practical communication:

INFORMAL SPEAKING Informal communication: giving and receiving messages in casual, person interactions Practical communication: useful, direct, goal oriented Giving directions Business phone call Making Announcements Social communication: friendly, cordial, enjoyable Phone call to a friend Making introductions Conversation

GIVING AND RECEIVING DIRECTIONS Giving Directions Receiving Directions Give directions fluently Ask for directions

GIVING AND RECEIVING DIRECTIONS Giving Directions Receiving Directions Give directions fluently Ask for directions clearly Select the simplest route Listen carefully Use a series of logical steps Repeat the directions Use visual terms Thank the person Consider drawing a map/diagram Repeat directions, if necessary

ACTIVITY!

ACTIVITY!

LISTENING IS IMPORTANT Hearing: vibration of sound waves on the eardrums and the firing

LISTENING IS IMPORTANT Hearing: vibration of sound waves on the eardrums and the firing of electrochemical impulses in the brain Listening: paying close attention to, and making sense of, what we hear Listening is more important than ever We only grasp 50% of what we hear; 24 hours later we can remember only 10% of the original message In this class, you will spend more time listening to speeches than giving them

LISTENING AND CRITICAL THINKING Appreciative Listening: for pleasure or enjoyment Empathic Listening: to provide

LISTENING AND CRITICAL THINKING Appreciative Listening: for pleasure or enjoyment Empathic Listening: to provide emotional support for a speaker Comprehensive Listening: to understand the message of a speaker Critical Listening: to evaluate a message for purposes of accepting or rejecting it Comprehensive and Critical Listening are the most common When your mind is not actively involved, you are hearing, not listening

4 CAUSES OF POOR LISTENING Not concentrating We talk at a rate of 120

4 CAUSES OF POOR LISTENING Not concentrating We talk at a rate of 120 -150 words a minute The brain can process 400 -800 words a minute Listening too hard Trying to remember everything said equally and missing the main point Often leads to mixing up information Jumping to conclusions Putting words into a speaker’s mouth Prematurely rejecting a speaker’s ideas as boring or misguided Focusing on delivery and personal appearance Easy to be distracted by accents, appearance, or vocal mannerisms