How to Stay TOUGH POSI IVE in a

How to Stay TOUGH + POSI IVE in a Work Environment Nidokidos

Ot he Be r Pe ha op vio le’s r Negative Work Environment The Environment Ouch! YOU ng nt i g e n a nm h C iro v n E Past Experiences De ve w i t ga Vie e N rld o W ter Th min eo ism ry Beware the Bullets! Nidokidos

Negative Work Environment - Dog eat dog. . . everyone fighting to get ahead - No one appreciates your contributions - Too much work. . . not enough help - Deadlines are unrealistic - Longer hours. . . additional work - Budget Constraints - Competition is eating us alive - Poor management / direction - Job insecurity Nidokidos

Other People’s Behavior Bulldozers Complainers Whiners Negatives Patronizers Snipers Clams Sluffers Gossips Backstabbers Walking Wounded Brown Nosers Controllers Exploders Nidokidos

Changing Environment “The only person who always likes change is a wet baby” CHANGE. . . u Challenges our paradigms u Alters the way we think u Makes life more difficult for a while u Causes Stress u Is an ongoing fact of life Nidokidos

Ouch! Past Experiences Ouch! Ouch! Nidokidos

Negative World View Media Frenzy A recent Statistic: Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%, Look at what you are looking at !!! Nidokidos

Determinism Theory u GENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me. (Inherited traits) u PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing) u ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc. . is doing this to me. (Surroundings) Nidokidos

Life’s Little Question “Are some people just born positive thinkers. . . or is it their CHOICE? ” Nidokidos

Choose the Right Luggage ts ulle B e g d Do Be Bulletproof Nidokidos

The Problem With Dodging Bullets You’re going to get hit! Nidokidos

Choice #2 Wear Bulletproof Armor Nidokidos

Bulletproof Armor Comes from SELF CHANGE Nidokidos

Putting on the Armor e g n Cha gs! in h T 3 Nidokidos

How to Change Your Attitude ATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the INSIDE OUT! ATTITUDE Nidokidos

So. . . Accept Responsibility I am responsible. . . for who I am. . . for what I have. . . for what I do E D U T I ATT Nidokidos

Step #2 Take Control Negative world view ATTITUDE YOU FROM THE INSIDE. . . OUT! Nidokidos

How to Change Your Thinking THINKING Changes come from observing logically in every situation THINKING Nidokidos

Observe Your Thinking Wh de at c fus an et Id his o t o ? This is all very interesting he t t a be to il ke I’d … is h t let to e ! s u me f e I r ok ho Tomorrow it will look very different. It s u cks to b eh im. THINKING Nidokidos

Manage Your Self-Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t… YOU’RE RIGHT! Henry Ford This is going to be a wonderful day! This is going to be a crappy day! THINKING Nidokidos

How to Change Your Behavior BEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline BEHAVIOR Nidokidos

Choose Your Behavior REACTIVE Stimulus Response RESPONSIBLE Stimulus My Choice My Response BEHAVIOR Nidokidos

INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT! + Add POSI IVE Behavior Replace the BAD HABITS! • Spread a SMILE around • Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives • • • Focus on the good of each day Stay out of the “feeding frenzies” Say “please” and “thank you” Practice EMPATHY Evaluate YOUR behavior Never miss an opportunity to complement BEHAVIOR Nidokidos

Remember to. . . Watch your definitions they become thoughts Watch your thoughts they become words Watch your words they become actions Watch your actions they become your destiny Nidokidos

The Choice is YOURS With a Bad attitude you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude have a bad day you can never Nidokidos

+ Choose POSI IVE Living Nidokidos

HAVE A WONDERFULL & A positive Future E N J O Y !!!!! Nidokidos

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