WELCOME Resilience How to Get it How to




































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WELCOME Resilience - How to Get it, How to Keep it, and How it Takes you to Joy
Stuff happens…
Some in your control…
Some not…
How would you define wellbeing?
Wellbeing Feeling good Functioning well
What kinds of things contribute to your own sense of mental wellbeing?
But it’s not always that straightforward…. Source: HSE 2014
But it’s not always that straightforward….
Prefrontal Cortex Empathy Sympathy Foresight
Hands up if ………. . • • • You have skipped a meal in the last week You got home late from work You have had a poor nights sleep You felt stressed You limited your fluid intake because you were too busy to pee All of the above cause vasoconstriction affecting the blood flow to the Pre frontal cortex
Sit down if…… You try to be everything to everyone You get to the end of the day and feel you haven’t made a meaningful difference You feel like the work you are doing is not recognised You lack balance between work and your personal life Your job varies between monotony and chaos You feel like you have little or no control over your work You work in healthcare
Stages of Burnout Rumination – pre-burnout phase Burnout Constant replay of negative loops Depression Physical, mental and emotional And or post traumatic stress disorder exhaustion Shame, doubt Cynicism and negativity
What is it?
So can we build resilience?
Positive Emotion Accomplishment Meaning Source: Martin Seligman Resilience and Wellbeing Engagement Relationships
Positive Emotion Accomplishment Meaning Source: Martin Seligman Resilience and Wellbeing Engagement Relationships
“Good things are like Teflon they slip away. Bad things stick like Velcro” Brian Sexton
Three good things 1. No more than 2 hours before bed 2. Think about 3 good things you were involved in today 3. Write down the 3 things and your personal contribution to them
Three good things …. let’s give it a go
So… does 3 good things work ? Happiness CES-D Pre-test 53. 4 (15 th percentile) 33. 9 (severe) Post Test 69. 8 (50 th percentile) 17. 20 (mild –moderate) Change +16. 4 92% increased -16. 70 94% decreased * Results within 14. 8 days on average – Seligman, Steen, Park and Peterson 2005
Positive Emotion Accomplishment Meaning Source: Martin Seligman Resilience and Wellbeing Engagement Relationships
Positive Emotion Accomplishment Meaning Source: Martin Seligman Resilience and Wellbeing Engagement Relationships
Positive Emotion Accomplishment Meaning Source: Martin Seligman Resilience and Wellbeing Engagement Relationships
Through the eyes of your grandchild what would your obituary say?
Positive Emotion Accomplishment Meaning Source: Martin Seligman Resilience and Wellbeing Engagement Relationships