Values and Refusal Skills What are Values Qualities

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Values and Refusal Skills

Values and Refusal Skills

What are Values? ? ? Qualities, characteristics, or ideas which we feel very strongly

What are Values? ? ? Qualities, characteristics, or ideas which we feel very strongly about. – Affects our: Decisions Goals Behavior

Where do you get your values? Home School Friends TV Church Year Raised In

Where do you get your values? Home School Friends TV Church Year Raised In Music Society Work Books

Characteristics of Values Personal Our actions point our real values Give direction/consistency Experiences –

Characteristics of Values Personal Our actions point our real values Give direction/consistency Experiences – Changes Gives us an identity Freely Chosen Respecting someone else’s values

Value Vs Fact Value: – A statement of one’s personal beliefs. Fact: – Established

Value Vs Fact Value: – A statement of one’s personal beliefs. Fact: – Established by observation and measurement.

Types of Values 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. Moral Aesthetic Material Intrinsic

Types of Values 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. Moral Aesthetic Material Intrinsic Extrinsic Universal Group Specific

Values Family Religion Money Marriage Travel Education Recreation Sports Honesty Winning Independence Close Friends

Values Family Religion Money Marriage Travel Education Recreation Sports Honesty Winning Independence Close Friends Popularity Health Career Peace Adventure Prestige Children Power Trust Loyalty Security Influence Charity Comfort Patriotism

Values Ranking Listed on your worksheet are 21 common values. Place a check mark

Values Ranking Listed on your worksheet are 21 common values. Place a check mark in the column that best represents how you values the value. Of the 21 listed, list your top 5 - IN ORDER OF IMPORTANCE (1 being the most important). Why? Do your actions really demonstrate that?

Values Auction $2, 000. 00 each Study sheet and make proposals. 3 minutes to

Values Auction $2, 000. 00 each Study sheet and make proposals. 3 minutes to do this. Bids must be in $100 increments. The item will go to the highest bidder. Students can bid on more than one value, but cannot exceed $2, 000. 00 TOTAL Students with $500 or more at the end of the bidding can spend their entire remaining amount on one of the mystery envelopes.

Refusal Skills Reasons we give in to Peer Pressure: – To save face –

Refusal Skills Reasons we give in to Peer Pressure: – To save face – It’s Easier – To Fit In

Save Face Broken record technique Give reasons or excuses Find a friend who feels

Save Face Broken record technique Give reasons or excuses Find a friend who feels the same way you do, or recruit an ally. Avoid the situation Change the subject Take a stand Take the pledge It’s the Law