Stephen Coveys The 7 Habits of Highly Effective
Stephen Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Powerful Lessons in Personal Change Presentation by: Dr. Scott Kunkel Associate Professor University of San Diego Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Personality and Character Ethics • Personality Ethic (post WWI) – Personality, public image, attitudes & behaviors, skills and techniques, quick fixes • Character Ethic (pre WWI) – Integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, the Golden Rule – Not just “What do I want? ” but “Why do I want it? ” Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
The Power of a Paradigm Shift • • What is a paradigm? What is a paradigm shift? My paradigm shift -- caring vs. enabling Near-death experiences frequently cause people to experience a paradigm shift. • Not all paradigm shifts are instantaneous -some happen gradually over time. Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Will the left side of the room please stand face the back of the room I will show the right side of the room a picture for ten seconds and ask you to remember what you saw Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Will the right side of the room please stand face the back of the room I will show the left side of the room a picture for ten seconds and ask you to remember what you saw Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Will both sides of the room please sit back down I will show you a picture for ten seconds and ask you to describe what you saw Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
What did you see? Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
The Seven Habits Knowledge (what to, why to) Habits Skills (how to) Desire (want to) Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Private Victories The First Three Habits Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 1 Be Proactive Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Freedom to Choose Stimulus Self. Awarness Response Independent Will Imagination Conscience Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Circle of Concern Circle of Influence Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Circle of Concern Circle of Influence Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 2 Begin with the End in Mind Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Alternative “Centers” • • Spouse centered Family centered Money centered Possession centered • • Pleasure centered Friend/Enemy centered Church centered Self centered • Principle Centered Write a Personal Mission Statement Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 3 Put First Things First Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Time Management Matrix Important I Not Important Urgent III Not Urgent II Activities: Prevention, PC activities Relationship building Recognizing new opportunities Planning, recreation Crises Pressing Problems Deadline Driven Projects IV Activities: Interruptions, some calls Some mail, some reports Some meetings Proximate, pressing matters Popular activities Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego Activities: Trivia, busy work Some mail Some phone calls Time wasters Pleasant activities
Public Victories The Second Three Habits Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 4 Think Win/Win Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Six Paradigms of Human Interaction • • • Win/lose Lose/Win Lose/Lose Win/Win or No Deal Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 5 Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 6 Synergize Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Renewal The Seventh Habit Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Habit # 7 Sharpen the Saw Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Physical Exercise, Nutrition Stress Management Mental Social/Emotional Reading, Visualizing Planning, Writing Service, Empathy Synergy, Intrinsic Security Spiritual Value Clarification & Commitment, Study & Meditation Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
Stephen Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People Powerful Lessons in Personal Change Presentation by: Dr. Scott Kunkel Associate Professor University of San Diego Dr. Scott W. Kunkel University of San Diego
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