Soul 2 Soul Educare presents How to Connect

Soul 2 Soul Educare presents How to Connect with Your Partner at a Soul Level

What is the Definition of Love?

Dictionary’s Definition: • (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties <eg. maternal love for a child> • (2) : attraction based on sexual desire <eg. affection and tenderness felt by lovers> • (3) : affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests <eg love for friends>

True Love in a relationship is… • The Union of two souls walking together in their journey to God • ½+½=1 not 2

3 Questions to Ask Yourselves? 1. Do we share a common life purpose? 2. Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person? 3. Is there anything I'm hoping to change about my partner?

Part 1 Tools For A Successful Relationship

1. Develop the Will to Understand Your Partner How long is she going to keep the light on? Doesn’t she understand I have to sleep!

Understanding • When you are in love, each of the partner’s troubles become the other’s. • Each should feel the pain of the other and understand help.

2. Always be humble UNDER STAND I

3. Don’t Lose Your Temper At the Same Time

4. Grow in the spirit of Forgiveness

5. Do not expect perfection from your Partner Why can’t he be what I want him to be? Why can’t she be what I want her to be?

6. Appreciate your Partner I think you’re absolutely awesome! Words to say to your partner often: I am so grateful for you in my life!

7. Be Childlike with Each Other

8. Do not find fault in your partner in front of others You don’t know how insensitive your dad is! I’m insensitve? ! Your mother is the one who’s selfish most of the time!

9. Be a Good Listener Listen with Your Heart

Exercise: How Well Do You Listen?

10. Discuss but don’t Argue

11. Learn to Laugh

12. Bring Spirituality into your Relationship

13. Help each other

14. Keep the Romance Alive

Part 2 Connecting with Your Partner “Spiritually” From Ancient Hindu Taoist Egyptian Texts on a Physical Level

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What is Sexual Energy? • Between 25 -40% of the vital energy a man accumulates from breathing, drinking, eating, sunlight, moonlight is used to manufacture sexual energy, which is stored as physical energy – sperm • A single ejaculation has 200 million to 500 million sperm cells • Discharge of semen means that the body has to produce more • 5000 ejaculations involve 15 liters of semen

Retaining the Sexual Energy According to Tantric & Taoist Masters: • It is possible for a man to have an orgasm with little or no ejaculation • Denying none of the pleasures of a physical relationship, but still retaining the sexual energy involved.

Sexual energy conservation assists in the internal balance of the human body functions.

Taoist term: The Big Draw • At orgasm a stream of etheric energy travels from the root chakra up the spine to the pituitary gland – most of this is lost at ejaculation • Drawing back the discharge of sexual energy and redirecting it up the spine to the head keeps the stream of etheric energy in its entirety. • Sexual potency is increased-multiple orgasms • Physical energy is not lost

The Sacred Sex Methods Tantric Method

Tantric Method • • • Stay in the moment Maintain a mindset that you are at the center of your reality. Look into each other’s eyes Breathe Send energy from your sexual organs Send energy from your heart chakra Send energy from your 3 rd eye chakra Then you have 2 choices: - You can stave off ejaculation - Have a controlled orgasm During orgasm, offer the energy to the Universe with love and gratitude.

The Sacred Sex Methods Taoist Method

Taoist Method – step 1 for men

Taoist Method – step 1 for women

Taoist Method – Step 3 for both

Taoist Method • Produces an extraordinary experience created by the shared energy pattern. • Takes the sexual energy, moves it into the higher spiritual centers of the crown and third eye chakras • Adds the vibration of unconditional love (∞) to complete the triad.

The Sacred Sex Methods Egyptian Method

Egyptian Method-Ankhing Crown Chakra Heart chakra

Egyptian Method-Ankhing Crown Chakra Heart chakra

Asking Goddess Aphrodite for Help

Asking Goddess Aphrodite for Help to enhance love-making session • She helps in commitment and marriage • Feminity, gracefulness, beauty and attraction and attractiveness • Sexuality including increasing desire and romantic passion. • Call upon her help before your lovemaking session

The Advantages of Sacred Sex • A deep sense of connectedness with your partner • Improved health and vitality • Increased capacity and longevity of performance and joy in sharing • Physical immortality and organ regeneration • Telepathic connection with your partner • Women can control their menstrual cycle

Meditation Technique to keep the flame of love burning bright

Give your 100%

Don’t take your Partner for granted Love them today Don’t wait for tomorrow… • If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you fall asleep, I would tuck you in more tightly and pray the Lord, your soul to keep. • If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you walk out the door, I would give you a hug and kiss and call you back for one more. • If I knew it would be the last time that I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise. I would video tape each action and word, so I could play them back day after day. • If I knew it would be the last time, I would spare an extra minute or two To stop and say " I love you" instead of assuming, you would know I do. • If I knew it would be the last time I would be there to share your day, would I think "Well I'm sure you'll have so many more, so I can let just this one slip anyway. • Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike' and today may be the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight. So if you're waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today? • For if tomorrow never comes. you'll surely regret the day, that you didn't take that extra time for a smile, a hug, or a kiss • So hold your loved ones close today, whisper in their ear, tell them how much you love them and that you'll always hold them dear. • Take the time to say "I'm sorry", "please forgive me", "thank you" or "it's okay". And if tomorrow never comes, you'll have no regrets about today.

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