Something Deeper The Way of Being Responsive Way

Something Deeper 행동 The Way of Being Responsive Way 상자 밖 나 자신과 타인은 있는 그대로-사람으로 본다. Seeing them as people, I am responsive to their reality -their concerns, their hopes, their needs, their fears. Others are as real to me as I am to myself Resistant Way 상자 안 자기 자신과 타인들을 체계적으로 왜곡된 방식으로, 단지 대상(Objects)으로 본다. Seeing them as objects, I am reristant to their reality. If I see others at all, they are less than I am-less relevant, less important, less real. Seeing people as less than they are, I am deceived about their reality.

III. The Power of Coaching 공모(Collusion) 3. I do: 4. They do: 2. I see: 1. They do:

공모(Collusion) 3. I do: 4. They do: 2. I see: 1. They do:

상자 밖으로 나오기(Getting out of the Box)

상자 밖으로 나오기(Getting out of the Box) u The box is a metaphor for how I am being in relationship with a particular person. Since I am always in relationship with multiple persons, when I am in the box toward a particular person I can be (and usually am) out of the box toward some other(s). u These responsive relationships (or memories of them) give me leverage to get out of the box in other areas of my life, for they provide “out-of-the -box” vantage points from where I can responsively ponder my life.