Private Victory to Public Victory 79 The Maturity
Private Victory to Public Victory 79
The Maturity Continuum Trustworthiness Private Victory to Public Victory 80
Video The Emotional Bank Account Private Victory to Public Victory 82
The Emotional Bank Account Deposits • Seek first to understand. • Show kindness, courtesy, respect. • Keep promises. • Be loyal to the absent. • Set clear expectations. • Apologize. • Give feedback (“I” messages). • Forgive. Private Victory to Public Victory Withdrawals • Assume you understand. • Show unkindness, discourtesy, disrespect. • Break promises. • Be disloyal, badmouth. • Create unclear expectations. • Be proud and arrogant. • Give no feedback or evaluate character (“you” messages). • Hold grudges. 82
Private Victory to Public Victory Skill Result Attitude Private Victory to Public Victory 84
Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 137
Video Sharpen the Saw Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 137
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 138
Habit 7—Principle Paradigm To maintain and increase effectiveness, we must renew ourselves in body, heart, mind, and soul. Result Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw Behavior 139
Habit 7—Paradigms Ineffective: I focus only on getting the golden eggs. Effective: I nurture the goose that lays the golden eggs. Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 139
x. Q Tells You… “I plan activities that allow me to continuously improve my performance. ” 34% Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 139
The Four Dimensions Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 140
Physical Assume you’ve had a heart attack in the last month. How would you approach exercise and nutrition? Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 141
Social / Emotional Assume that everything you say about people will be heard by them. How might you choose your words differently? Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 142
Mental Assume your knowledge and skills will be obsolete in two years. What new learning avenues would you explore? Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 143
Spiritual Assume you have a year to live. What legacy would you want to leave? Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 144
The Weekly Compass Run three days Dinner with friends Finish art book Take walk on parkway Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 145
Teach to Learn Habit 7 Sharpen the Saw 146– 147
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