Perception Checking Impact of Perception We act towards

Perception Checking Impact of Perception We act towards others on the basis of our perceptions n We often use our perceptions to predict what we think the other will think or do next. n We are less likely check the accuracy of our perceptions with those we know well or people we’ve already decided are “bad”. n Tricia S. Jones, Temple University, copyright protect, March 2006

Perception Checking A Technique to reduce bias n Perception checking is a tool that helps prevent misunderstanding and conflict. n The goal of perception checking is mutual understanding. Tricia S. Jones, Temple University, copyright protect, March 2006

Perception Checking has 3 parts: 1. Description - provide a description of the behavior you noticed. 2. Interpretation - provide two possible interpretations of the behavior. 3. Clarification - request clarification from the person about the behavior & your interpretations. Tricia S. Jones, Temple University, copyright protect, March 2006

Perception Checking n Perception Checking Example: “When you stomped out of the room and slammed the door…” (description of behavior) “I wasn’t sure whether you were mad at me…” (interpretation #1) “or just in a hurry. ” (interpretation #2) “What were you feeling? ” (request for clarification) Tricia S. Jones, Temple University, copyright protect, March 2006

Perception Process Practice Perception Checking in dyads: 1. A neighbor and good friend has not responded to your “Good morning” for three days in a row. This person is usually friendly. 2. You haven’t received the usual weekly phone call from your folks in over a month. The last time you spoke, you argued about where to spend the holidays. Tricia S. Jones, Temple University, copyright protect, March 2006