Module 4 Expectations of 4 H Parents Extension

Module #4: Expectations of 4 -H Parents “Extension educators and local leaders may kindle the flame in youth, but it takes the good will and help of parents to keep the fire burning. " “I’m a 4 -H Parent…Now What? ” Indiana 4 -H Parent Resource Series for Extension Educators, Volunteers, and Parents Compiled by Steve Mc. Kinley, Extension Specialist, Leadership & Volunteerism 1

Objective: List expectations of -H parents. 4 Question to answer: What are the expectations of parents within the 4 -H Program? 2

Expectations of 4 -H Parents Make a sincere effort to have your children at 4 -H Club meetings and activities. ¡ Pick up your children from 4 -H Club meetings and activities promptly. ¡ Advise your children in selecting 4 H projects that are appropriate for them. ¡ Learn about 4 -H with your children. ¡ 3

Expectations of 4 -H Parents Keep informed about 4 -H through information that comes to members of your family. ¡ Help your children learn responsibility by encouraging them to complete their 4 -H projects. ¡ Be a guide, advisor, teacher, and counselor to your children as they work on 4 -H projects and activities …BUT, don’t do the job for them. ¡ 4

Expectations of 4 -H Parents Be a good example! Help your children be good sports and appreciate the successes of others. ¡ Encourage your children when they succeed & even more when they fail. l Help them see progress; not just the end result. l Children will gain confidence and a sense of security when they know their parents approve of their work. ¡ 5

Expectations of 4 -H Parents Help children learn to make choices and decisions. ¡ Help children understand their capabilities and reach their potential. ¡ Support your 4 -H Club with your time and talents. Be a positive, active parental influence. ¡ 6