MANNER S BY MRS LISA ORF 7 TH

MANNER S BY MRS. LISA ORF 7 TH & 8 TH GRADES LANGUAGE ARTS TEACHER ST. JOSEPH CATHOLIC SCHOOL WESTPHALIA MO

MANNERS • This is a vocabulary and character building assignment. • Take notes in your journal. You will be graded on whether or not your notes are in there. • There will be an open note test at the end of this Power. Point. Take good notes! • There will be activities and assignments respective to manners. • This Power. Point is posted on the classroom website after Feb. 13 th at: http: //www. stjosephwestphalia. org/mrs-lisa-orf-

manner [man-er] noun 1. A way of doing, being done, or happening; mode of action, occurrence, etc. : I don't like the manner in which he complained. 2. Manners. The prevailing customs, ways of living, and habits of a people, class, period, etc. ; mores: The novels of Jane Austen are concerned with the manners of her time. Ways of behaving with reference to polite standards; social comportment: That child has good manners. Dictionary. com: http: //www. dictionary. com/browse/manners

THE ROOT OF MANNERS Part of Speech: Noun, plural Prefix: none Root word: manner Suffix: s Derivations: mannerly, mannered, well-mannered, illmanners

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SYNONYMS FOR MANNERS NOUN POLITE, REFINED SOCIAL BEHAVIOR Thesaurus. com: http: //www. thesaurus. com/browse/manners? s=t

ANTONYMS OF MANNERS bad manners impoliteness impropriety rudeness

JOURNALING MANNERS Write one paragraph (five sentences) in your journal discussing what you think "manners" means.

THE MANNERS TRIFECTA Respect regard highly; think much of Responsibility a form of trustworthiness; the trait of being answerable to someone for something or being responsible for one's conduct Etiquette rules governing socially acceptable behavior Vocabulary. com: https: //www. vocabulary. com/dictionary/

RESPECT Respect is a feeling of admiration or deference toward a person, child, non-human animal, group, ideal, or indeed almost any entity or concept, as well as specific actions and conduct representative of that esteem. Respect can be a specific feeling of regard for the actual qualities of the one respected (e. g. , "I have great respect for her judgment"). It can also be conduct in accord with a specific ethic of respect. Some people earn the respect of individuals by assisting others or playing important social roles. In many cultures, individuals are considered to be worthy of respect until they prove otherwise. Courtesies that show respect include simple words and phrases like "thank you" in the West, simple physical gestures like a slight bow in the East, a smile, or direct eye contact, or a simple handshake. Wikipedia: https: //en. wikipedia. org/wiki/Respect

RESPONSIBILITY Responsibility is important in teaching accountability and ownership for mistakes as well as achievements. Responsibility at the personal and business level is a large factor is a measure of one's maturity. Parts of maturity include being sensitive to the needs of another, anger management, and selflessness as opposed to selfishness. When one is an infant, he or she is truly are the center of the universe. As a person grows, matures, and becomes responsible, he or she is no longer the center of the universe and must be accountable and responsible for his or her own actions. A person is generally responsible for his or her own actions, attitudes, choices, and behaviors. Personal responsibility extends to the corporate level in good business practice, as well. Reference: https: //www. reference. com/world-view/responsibility-important-3 b 4267 b 60 a 0 c 8 c 38#

ETIQUETTE Etiquette, in simpler words, is defined as good behavior which distinguishes human beings from animals. A human being is a social animal and it is really important for him or her to behave in an appropriate way. Etiquette refers to behaving in a socially responsible way. Etiquette refers to guidelines which control MSG: http: //www. managementstudyguide. com/what-is-etiquette. htm the way a responsible individual should

THE NEED FOR • Etiquette makes you a cultured individual who leaves his or her ETIQUETTE mark wherever he or she goes. • Etiquette teaches one the way to talk, walk and, most importantly, behave in the society. • Etiquette is essential for an everlasting first impression. The way you interact with your superiors, parents, fellow workers, friends speaks a lot about your personality and up-bringing. • Etiquette enables the individuals to earn respect and appreciation in the society. No one would feel like talking to a person who does not know how to speak or behave in the society. Etiquette inculcates a feeling of trust and loyalty in the individuals, because one is perceived as more responsible and mature. Etiquette helps individuals value relationships. MSG: http: //www. managementstudyguide. com/what-is-etiquette. htm

JOURNALING MANNERS Respect, responsibility, and etiquette – why it important to apply the practice of these words to one’s manners? Write one paragraph (five

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MANNERS AND MORALS Morals are principles and beliefs concerning right and wrong. For example, is it right or wrong to steal, to kill someone, to betray someone for personal gain, or to have an abortion? Manners are the way we behave socially. If someone has good manners, they are polite and observe social customs. For example, giving up your seat to a woman with a baby, or leaving the table to use your mobile phone when dining with friends. If someone has bad manners, they are impolite and don't observe these customs. For example, English Club: http: //www. myenglishclub. com/forum/topics/the-difference-between-manners-and-

WHAT ARE GOOD MANNERS? Good manners are behaviors deemed polite or respectful in a given culture. Saying "please" and "thank you" are simple examples of good manners in American culture. Manners, rules of etiquette, or norms are often divided into different categories. Good social manners refer to a person's ability to interact with others in a way that is respectful and appreciated. Looking someone in the eyes in a conversation, waiting for a turn to speak, listening actively and holding the door are examples of basic social manners. (Continued to the next slide. ) Reference: https: //www. reference. com/world-view/good-manners-2 c 433 b 46 fe 0 a 5322

WHAT ARE GOOD MANNERS? (CONTINUED) Table manners or dinner etiquette include norms during sit-down meals. Placing a napkin on the lap, sitting up straight, chewing with a closed mouth, not belching or slurping and cutting meat with a knife and fork are common examples of good table manners. The business world has its own set of good manners and etiquette. A guest should follow the lead of a host during a business meeting or meal. Standing and offering a firm handshake and friendly smile is an accepted way of meeting someone new in a professional setting. Sending a thank-you note after meeting a prospect is also proper. In a professional office, good manners include respecting the space of colleagues and coworkers, maintaining a clean-smelling Reference: https: //www. reference. com/world-view/good-manners-2 c 433 b 46 fe 0 a 5322 environment and keeping a tidy workspace.

WHAT ARE MORALS? Honesty, respect for others, loyalty, responsibility for personal actions, generosity, and kindness are all examples of moral values. They are defined as the ideals and principles that guide how people act. Someone who is trustworthy, respectful, kind, and reliable can be said to have good moral values. Moral values are concepts that are based on an idea of right and wrong, and moral values shape an individual's personality. A person's moral values can come from a variety of sources, including religion, cultural traditions, individual experiences, and even laws or rules. For example, people who were mistreated as children and have decided to donate time and money to combat child abuse likely developed the moral values of Reference: https: //www. reference. com/world-view/examples-moral-values-

THE OPPOSITE OF GOOD MANNERS: ILLMANNERED • Having bad or poor manners; impolite; discourteous; r ude. Dictionary. com: http: //www. dictionary. com/browse/illmannered • Having bad manners; rude Merriam-Webster. com: https: //www. merriam- webster. com/dictionary/ill%E 2%80%93 mannered • Socially incorrect in behavior Vocabulary. com: https: //www. vocabulary. com/dictionary/illmannered • Lacking or indicating a lack of good manners; rude. The Free Dictionary: http: //www. thefreedictionary. com/ill-

WRITING MANNERS • We will go over two handouts in class today: “Thank You Etiquette” and “How to Write a Thank You Note. ” • Create a thank you note Using a piece of typing paper folded in half twice to make a card. • Write your favorite scripture on the front of the card using reference information to the book, chapter, and verse you chose. • Write a thank you note to Mrs. Ogden thanking her for being your principal and taking the time to care about you by trying to make you better students when your own manners are not so good. • Decorate your card.

25 MANNERS EVERY KID NEEDS BY AGE 9

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PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT • Your class just reviewed the top 25 manners every child should know by the age of 9. • Mrs. Orf will draw for names. • When your name is called, you will come to the front of the room and demonstrate the manner Mrs. Orf chooses for you.

THE GOLDEN RULE The "Golden Rule" has been attributed to Jesus of Nazareth, who used it to summarize the Torah: "Do to others what you want them to do to you. This is the meaning of the law of Moses and the teaching of the prophets" (Matthew 7: 12 NCV, see also Luke 6: 31). Wikipedia: https: //en. wikipedia. org/wiki/Golden_Rule

THE GOLDEN RULE What does The Golden Rule have to do with manners? Write one five sentence paragraph in your journal answering this

TESTING YOUR MANNERS There will be an open note test over the material in this Power. Point once we have completed going over it in class. Make sure you know the meaning of these 10 synonyms of manners for the test (it is highly suggested that you research the meanings): civilities conduct demeanor dignity protocol courtesy decorum deportment politeness propriety This Power. Point is posted on the classroom website after