Make Mentoring Memorable Glenn Lim DTM Professional Speaker

Make Mentoring Memorable! Glenn Lim, DTM Professional Speaker / Trainer Transformational Psychologist

Origins of Mentoring King Odysseus placed Mentor in charge of his son Telemachus, during his absence fighting in the Trojan War. Mentor guided and taught Telemachus, and offered protection and wise counsel. Copyright © 2015 GLC Pte Ltd

DEFINITION OF MENTORING & l a n o i t n l e u t f e In s o p r u P Mentoring is “a structured and trusting relationship between caring individuals who offer guidance, support, advice and encouragement aimed at developing the competence and character of the mentee” l& (S. G. Weinberger, 2004) Copyright © 2015 GLC Pte Ltd Goa meo c t Ou nted orie

4 CONDITIONS FOR MENTORS 1) Compassion (right motivation & sincerity) 2) Chemistry (match & fit) 3) Commitment (availability & dedication) 4) Confidence (adequacy & experience) Copyright© 2015 GLCPte. Ltd

3 MENTORING ROLES 1) Confidante (creating a safe & trusting relationship) 2) Coach (imparting, guiding, developing, stretching) 3) Cheerleader (encouraging, motivating, empowering) Copyright © 2015 GLC Pte Ltd

Mentoring Timeline Mentoring is a Journey, and Mentors are Journey-Companions

Mentoring Timeline Agenda Phase 1 • Initiate 1 st meeting • Orient to program overview, club customs, procedures • Explain expectations, responsibilities • Share personal journey Phase 2 Phase 3 • Review P 1 • Review & evaluate goals • Set Goals for project speeches • Celebrate & affirm progress • Set Goals for skills-learning • Challenge member to serve • Share TI resources • Set future goals • Help with & review P 2 – P 6 (? ) • Invite, orient Div / Dist events (contests etc) • Help with P 1 (Ice. Breaker) Duration

“MENTORABILITY” Faithful Available Initiated Teachable Hungry Is he committed to the mentoring relationship? Does his schedule permit mentoring? Is he pro-active in initiating meetings etc? Is he open & receptive to feedback etc? Is he willing / wanting to be mentored?

Glenn Lim Professional Speaker / Trainer Transformational Psycho-Educator