Lesson Three Weddings Chinese wedding Chinese Wedding Weddings

Lesson Three Weddings

Chinese wedding

Chinese Wedding

Weddings history

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Weddings… "To have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, in church

bridegroom best man a man who is about to get married or has just got married a friend of the groom who helps him during the wedding ceremony a woman who is about to get married or has just got married

ceremony a party to celebrate the marriage ceremony of two people entrance an important social or religious occasion wedding reception a door or gate that you go through to enter a place

1. Have you ever been to a wedding party? 2. Who was getting married? 3. How many people were there? 4. What time did it start/finish? 5. What did they wear? 6. What did people do? 7. Did you have a wonderful time?

Read the text and try to remember what to do and what not to do.

Indonesian Weddings

Indonesian Weddings What to do: Discuss in groups and report I can go without an invitation. I can attend the reception after the ceremony. I have to put money into the box at the entrance of the reception. What not to do: I shouldn’t go to the ceremony without asking first. I don’t have to contribute a lot of money. I can’t drink alcohol at the wedding reception. Indonesian women don’t have to cover their heads.

Greek Weddings

Greek Weddings

Greek Weddings

Greek Weddings before the wedding ceremony The groom has to ask the bride’s father for his daughter’s hand in marriage. during the wedding ceremony The best man should help the priest to put crowns on the heads of the couple. has to to link the crowns to A long silk ribbon has symbolise a happy and long life for the couple. after the wedding ceremony The guests can attend a wedding reception. Guests can smash dishes on the floor and pin money to the bride’s dress for good luck.

Listen and decide which ones are true (T) and which ones are false (F).

Indonesian families only invite people F 1. they have known for a long time. F 2. The reception is before the wedding. T 3. Guests usually give money as a present T 4. In Greek culture , the bridegroom has to ask for the bride’s hand in marriage. F 5. The bride and bridegroom’s wedding crowns are made of gold. T 6. A piece of ribbon links the wedding crowns together.

Language points 1. even if: even though 即使 Even if you know the secret you should keep silent. Even though it rains tomorrow, we’ll start out.

• 关系亲密的 2. close adj. • close family/ close friend • My parents divorced when I was four. But they’ve got closer after the accident. 势均力敌的 • This is a close match. No one can tell who’ll win at last. adv. （距离上）接近的，靠近的 • Sit close against the wall. • It was very cold, so the girl stood close to her mother to get warm.

3. contribute (oneself) to sth. contribution n make contribution to sth/sb 捐献、捐赠；捐(钱) He contributed a lot of food and clothes to the poor. 他为穷人捐了很 多的食品和衣服。

(2) 献身于… He contributed himself to doing research. 他投身于研究 作。 (3) 投稿, 撰稿。 He contributed poem to a newspaper. 他向报社投了一篇诗稿。

(4) 贡献 He made great contribution to the country. 他为国家做出了巨大贡献。 He made great contribution to the invention of computer. 他对计算机的发明做出了巨大贡 献。

4. …help put crowns made of flowers… = …help put crowns which are made of flowers… 动词的过去分词可 后置定语, 也可以转换成被动语态的定语 从句。 Finally they found the pot buried underground. = Finally they found the pot which was buried underground.

match the words to their meanings 1. have to 2. don’t have to 3. can 4. can’t 5. ought 6. ought not to a)not necessary b)necessary c)not allowed/not possible d)allowed/possibl e e)not advisable f)advisable

Complete the passage below with the following words: have to, don’t have to, can’t, can, ought to, ought not to Weddings are happy occasions but when my sister got married last year, my mum and sister did not agree on anything. First It was the dress. My mum said, “Lisa, to wear a white dress, ” and my you have ______ don’t have to wear white. sister replied, “I ______ can I ____wear pink if I like. ”

Next it was the invitations. My mum to invite Sally, ” Said, “ Lisa, you really ought _______ have to invite herand my sister replied, “I don’t ______ --we have too many people already. ” Then it can’t was the flowers. My mum said, “you ____ have lilies. I’ve heard that they’re bad luck, ” can and my sister replied, “of course I ___ have lilies! I don’t believe they’re unlucky!” and to have then it was the cake!“ You really ought _______ a fruit cake, Lisa, ” said my mum, but Lisa wanted chocolate. Finally, I told them that they ought not to argue so much because it really ______ makes me hate weddings for life!

Vocabulary: word building You can often make nouns from verbs by adding the suffixes “ –tion” and “ance”. However, spellings may change somewhat. Make nouns from these verbs by competing the table.

Verbs invite receive attend enter contribute Nouns invitation reception attendance entrance contribution

Use the verbs and nouns above to complete the sentences below. 1. Have you been invited ______ to Ben’s party? Yes, I received an ____ invitation to his party today. attend class this 2. Jeremy, you didn’t ______ morning. Attendance _____ is necessary if you want to pass!

entrance you 3. The room has a secret ____ can only enter _____ if you know where it is. 4. We had a lovely wedding reception _____. We have ______ received so many beautiful presents! contribute money. 5. You ought to _____ contribution doesn’t need But your ______ to be big.

What happens at wedding in your town/city? Use modal verbs and expressions from the lesson to write about some of these things. clothes, reception, ceremony, flowers, presents, songs, food, speeches

Discuss our school rules in groups, by using the modals: have to / not have to, can/can’t , should/ shouldn’t. • For example: • Presenter: Can you tell us our school rules? • A: Yes you can’t dye your hair colorful. • B: ……. • C: …….

Homework Write eight sentences giving advice to a foreigner who is going to a wedding in your town /city.

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