Lesson 2 Developing Personal Identity and Character 1

Lesson 2 Developing Personal Identity and Character 1

Your Personal Identity • Personal Identity – Your sense of yourself as a unique individual • Age, circumstances • Identity development is key in your teen years • Identity is formed by – Your likes and dislikes – Relationships with family and friends – Role Model • Someone whose success or behavior serves as a an example for you • Identity will change throughout your life as your interests change • You will struggle at times with your identity but eventually you will develop a clear sense of your own values, interests, beliefs, occupational goals, and relationship expectations 2

Aspects of Identity • Personality – A complex set of characteristics that makes you unique • Sets you apart from other people • Determines how you will react in certain situations • Other unique qualities of your identity include: – Relationships with your family, your ethnic group, and friends 3

The Importance of Good Character • Character – The distinctive qualities that describe how a person thinks, feels, and behaves • Good character is an outward expression of inner values • Core Ethical Values – Responsibility, Honesty, Respect 4

Traits of Good Character • Integrity – A firm observance of core ethical values • You practice consistently these 6 traits: – Trustworthiness • Honest, loyal, reliable, courage to do the right thing – Respect • Considerate of others, accept differences, good manners, care, make decisions that respect your health and others – Responsibility • Self-control, accountable, try your best – Fairness • Play by the rules, take turns, share, open minded, listen to others – Caring • Kind, compassionate, express gratitude, forgiving, want to help – Citizenship • Advocate for a safe and healthy environment, obey rules and laws, respect authority 5

Working Toward a Positive Identity • Recognize Your Strengths and Weaknesses – Be honest and realistic • Demonstrate Positive Values • Develop a Purpose in Your Life – Set goals, short-term and long-term • Form Meaningful Relationships – Constructive criticism • Non-hostile comments that point out problems and encourage improvement • Avoid Unhealthful High-Risk Behaviors – Take healthy risks • Contribute to the Community – Extended support system, use it! 6