Interpersonal Skills Personal Characteristics in Interpersonal Relationships Amy

  • Slides: 23
Download presentation
Interpersonal Skills Personal Characteristics in Interpersonal Relationships Amy Jean Vivian

Interpersonal Skills Personal Characteristics in Interpersonal Relationships Amy Jean Vivian

Content Personal Characteristics Values v. How Values are formed? Activities Healthy Vs Unhealthy Values

Content Personal Characteristics Values v. How Values are formed? Activities Healthy Vs Unhealthy Values Conclusion Questions & Answers

Personal Characteristics Interpersonal Skills & Values

Personal Characteristics Interpersonal Skills & Values

What are Values? What you believe in & prize ∵ People have unique belief

What are Values? What you believe in & prize ∵ People have unique belief systems same event triggered different reactions among people

How Values are formed? By the need to be loved and approved of family

How Values are formed? By the need to be loved and approved of family & parents By the need to feel belonging and approval from peers By the need for emotional and physical well-being

Family & Parents In order to feel safe and cared adopted beliefs & values

Family & Parents In order to feel safe and cared adopted beliefs & values from them. e. g. How to work How to handle anger, mistakes & pain How self-reliant one should be What are the proper goals in life What one can & cannot talk about …

Family & Parents Sometimes, in order to please family & parents, people may have

Family & Parents Sometimes, in order to please family & parents, people may have to accept negative labels, e. g. Selfish Stupid weak lazy

Peers ∵ Peer acceptance learn to live by rules & beliefs governing such areas,

Peers ∵ Peer acceptance learn to live by rules & beliefs governing such areas, e. g. How to act with opposite sex How to handle aggression How much to reveal …

Emotional & Physical well-being Need for self-esteem Need to protect yourself from painful emotions,

Emotional & Physical well-being Need for self-esteem Need to protect yourself from painful emotions, e. g. hurts or loss Need for pleasure, excitement & meaning Need to feel physically safe

Activities

Activities

Healthy Vs Unhealthy Values

Healthy Vs Unhealthy Values

Healthy Vs Unhealthy Values Healthy Values 1. Flexible 2. Owed 3. Realistic 4. Life-enhancing

Healthy Vs Unhealthy Values Healthy Values 1. Flexible 2. Owed 3. Realistic 4. Life-enhancing Unhealthy Values 1. Rigid 2. Introjected 3. Unrealistic 4. Life-restricting

1. Healthy values are flexible Allow for exceptions which circumstances warrant Include a built-in

1. Healthy values are flexible Allow for exceptions which circumstances warrant Include a built-in awareness = certain percentage of time you will fail to live up to ideal standard

1. Unhealthy values are rigid Unbending & university applied Often include words like never,

1. Unhealthy values are rigid Unbending & university applied Often include words like never, always, all, totally, perfectly… No quota system = does not include built-in awareness

2. Healthy values are owed Critically examined the rule for living & it still

2. Healthy values are owed Critically examined the rule for living & it still makes sense to you

2. Unhealthy values are introjected Accept parental values without determining how well they fit

2. Unhealthy values are introjected Accept parental values without determining how well they fit your own unique circumstances, personality, & needs Unquestioning acceptance of rules, e. g. buying a car without a test drive

3. Healthy values are Realistic Based on assessment of +ve vs –ve consequences Promote

3. Healthy values are Realistic Based on assessment of +ve vs –ve consequences Promote behavior that leads to +ve outcomes = purpose of value Why you need to follow it? ØAnswer: in your experience these values guides you toward a way of living that feels good

3. Unhealthy values are unrealistic Have nothing to do with “outcomes” Absolute & global

3. Unhealthy values are unrealistic Have nothing to do with “outcomes” Absolute & global Prescribe behavior because it is “right” & “good”

4. Healthy values are life-enhancing Account your basic needs as a human being Flexibility

4. Healthy values are life-enhancing Account your basic needs as a human being Flexibility to pursue your emotional, sexual. Intellectual, and recreational needs Encourage you to do what is nourishing & supportive

4. Unhealthy values: life-restricting Diminish or narrow your living Feeling depleted by self-sacrifice

4. Unhealthy values: life-restricting Diminish or narrow your living Feeling depleted by self-sacrifice

Conclusion Values are what you believe & in prize. Everyone will have different values.

Conclusion Values are what you believe & in prize. Everyone will have different values. Values are mostly affected by family, peers & emotional. Values: Healthy & Unhealthy

Any Questions? ?

Any Questions? ?

End of Presentation Thank You

End of Presentation Thank You

INTERPERSONAL SKILLS Interpersonal Skills Facilitation Skills language communicationINTERPERSONAL SKILLS Interpersonal Skills Facilitation Skills language communication
INTERPERSONAL SKILLS Interpersonal Skills Facilitation Skills language communicationINTERPERSONAL SKILLS Interpersonal Skills Facilitation Skills language communication
COMMUNICATION INTERPERSONAL SKILLS Interpersonal skills are the skillsCOMMUNICATION INTERPERSONAL SKILLS Interpersonal skills are the skills
Personal Skills Personal Skills Definition of personal skillsPersonal Skills Personal Skills Definition of personal skills
1 KEMAMPUAN KETRAMPILAN INTERPERSONAL Interpersonal Skills Key interpersonal1 KEMAMPUAN KETRAMPILAN INTERPERSONAL Interpersonal Skills Key interpersonal
Chapter Interpersonal Relationship Skills Interpersonal Relationships Are ImportantChapter Interpersonal Relationship Skills Interpersonal Relationships Are Important
INTERPERSONAL SKILLS 1 Interpersonal skills Necessary for relatingINTERPERSONAL SKILLS 1 Interpersonal skills Necessary for relating
Interpersonal skills Necessary Interpersonal Skills Social Care InInterpersonal skills Necessary Interpersonal Skills Social Care In
Interpersonal Skills MDP Powerful Business Communication Interpersonal SkillsInterpersonal Skills MDP Powerful Business Communication Interpersonal Skills
INTERPERSONAL SKILLS l Interpersonal skills are all theINTERPERSONAL SKILLS l Interpersonal skills are all the
Interpersonal Skills Hasan Mustafa 2002 1 Interpersonal SkillsInterpersonal Skills Hasan Mustafa 2002 1 Interpersonal Skills
Interpersonal Various communication skills Interpersonal communication skills PublicInterpersonal Various communication skills Interpersonal communication skills Public
Chapter 3 Interpersonal Communication Skills Interpersonal communication skillsChapter 3 Interpersonal Communication Skills Interpersonal communication skills
Interpersonal Skills Objectives Understand what interpersonal skills areInterpersonal Skills Objectives Understand what interpersonal skills are
Amy Rogers Amy Rogers Amy Rogers Carl CorbidgeAmy Rogers Amy Rogers Amy Rogers Carl Corbidge
Interpersonal Communication John A Cagle Interpersonal Communication InterpersonalInterpersonal Communication John A Cagle Interpersonal Communication Interpersonal
INTERPERSONAL SKILL INTERPERSONAL SKILL KEMAMPUAN INTERPERSONAL suatu kemampuanINTERPERSONAL SKILL INTERPERSONAL SKILL KEMAMPUAN INTERPERSONAL suatu kemampuan
INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION CONTEXT 1 INTERPERSONAL CONTEXTDEFINED INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATIONINTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION CONTEXT 1 INTERPERSONAL CONTEXTDEFINED INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
Todays focus Interpersonal Skills Intrapersonal Skills Business SkillsTodays focus Interpersonal Skills Intrapersonal Skills Business Skills
Todays focus Interpersonal Skills Intrapersonal Skills Business SkillsTodays focus Interpersonal Skills Intrapersonal Skills Business Skills
CHAPTER 12 Interpersonal Relations Relationships and Work InterpersonalCHAPTER 12 Interpersonal Relations Relationships and Work Interpersonal
Interpersonal Relationships Increasing Interpersonal Success Through SelfAwareness AvrilInterpersonal Relationships Increasing Interpersonal Success Through SelfAwareness Avril