Identity BALANCE LIFE COACH TRAINING Definition of coaching
Identity BALANCE LIFE COACH TRAINING
Definition of coaching Coaching is a mutually chosen helping relationship between a Coach and a Client where meaningful conversations and people development tools are used to facilitate a process of becoming for both Client and Coach - Nico Liebenberg
HELPING RELATIONSHIP MEANINGFUL CONVERSATIONS REFLECTIVE SPACE Facilitate PROCESS OF BECOMING IDENTITY PEOPLE DEVELOPMENT TOOLS
Identity Being Doing Having
Identity o Being refers to a person’s definition of himself according to who he essentially is o Doing refers to a person’s definition of himself according to what he is capable of doing, i. e. what he can do or achieve o Having refers to a person’s definition of himself according to Having what he possesses materially
Identity is the essential understanding a person has of him- or herself and happens over time when one discovers herself the purpose of one’s life; what one is capable of doing and purpose of re-igniting the motivation to move in the direction of motivation expressing one’s essence by releasing one’s potential. This potential in essence is the fundamental process of becoming we all engage with in life, from birth to death
Paradigmatic Purpose Potential Is part of the essential understanding of your identity. It includes the discovering and journeying into your life’s Relational The way you think intended direction and answers the question, ‘Why am I here? ’ What you are capable of doing to fulfill your purpose. It Personal Is the most fundamental context in which you live your life, Work Family answers the question, ‘What can I do? ’ Being i. e. the most basic context for giving expression of who Body Soul Spirit you are, your identity Doing Social Spiritual
Paradigmatic Purpose Personal Purpose Statement Potential Personal Interpersonal Body, Soul, Spirit 4 Contexts
Identity True Self False Self Real Self Ideal Self Christ in you Adam in you
Identity As a man thinks, so is he - Solomon
Identity - Universal o Identity is the fundamental reality or truth of what is o The characteristics determining who or what a person or thing is o The qualities, beliefs, etc. , that make a particular person or group different from others o Who someone is, the name of a person o The condition of being oneself, and not being another o The sense of self, providing sameness and continuity in personality over time
Identity - Paradigmatic o Identity in a person is a paradigm or belief o A present paradigm or belief… o Held by an individual’s mind… o About who he is o Is a current understanding of the essence of person-hood current o Who an individual believes he is, what he believes about himself
Identity o An individual’s own answer to the question, “Who am I? ” o An essential, recursive understanding of the self by the self o Identity is a person’s most fundamental understanding of his being, doing and having
Identity o To live your identity is the most fundamental and essential type of life to live o More joy and happiness is experienced when one lives in congruence with his identity as opposed to live ‘another’ identity o Living your identity is the essential process of becoming
Identity o Deep meaning in life is found in discovering and living your identity o Without knowing and living your identity there can be no true and lasting experience of fulfilment o Jesus revealed Peter’s identity when Peter understood Jesus’ identity o Jesus endured temptations on his believe about who He is
The Process Of Learning I don’t know that I know Unaware knowledgeable I don’t know that I don’t know Ignorant unaware I know that I don’t know Knowledgeable unaware
The Process Of Knowledge Data Wisdom Insight Information Understanding
Levels Of Knowledge Intellectual Knowledge Experiential Knowledge Revelation Knowledge
Identity Body and spirit senses observe Mind adds meaning Mind draws distinctions Mind gives name/s
Self-Awareness Self. Confidence Self-Knowledge Self-Acceptance
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