Helping Sailors Succeed in Spite of their Parents
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Helping Sailors Succeed in Spite of their Parents Richard D. Ginsburg, Ph. D. Co-author, Whose Game Is It, Anyway? Massachusetts General Hospital Harvard Medical School Performance and Character Excellence in Sport (PACES) Institute
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Our Culture of immediate gratification Relentless search for competitive edge Disrupted family routine Cocktail party nervosa
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FUNDAMENTAL QUESTIONS What kind of person do you want your child to be by the time he or she is 21? What are the 3 to 5 core values that you would like them to embody? How will you define success?
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Benefits of Sports Reduces risk of obesity and cardiovascular illness Improves academic performance Reduces anxiety and depression Improves social skills Teaches adversity management Fosters leadership
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Probability of High School Athletes Competing at the NCAA and Professional Levels • Men’s Basketball • Women’s Basketball. 02% • Football • Baseball • Men’s Ice Hockey • Men’s Soccer • Scholarships? NCAA PRO 2. 9% . 03% 3. 1% 5. 8% 5. 6% 12. 9% 5. 7% . 09%. 5%. 4%. 08%
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Overtraining and Specialization Risks • Up to 50% of all injuries seen in pediatric sports medicine clinics are related to overuse (Brenner et al. , 2007) • Specialization before puberty can jeopardize physical and emotional health and lead to overuse injury, burnout and stress (American Academy of Pediatrics, 2000; Butcher, et al. , 2002; Coakley, 1992; Wiersma, 2000) • Adult back, spine, knee and contusions (Neville & Folland, 2009)
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Warning Signs • • Eye sparkle deficit Primary outcome focus One-dimensional athletic identity Phantom injury or ache Chronic fatigue Overly intense training regimen/No time off Dramatic competitive shifts
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Family Contributions to Burnout • • Parental zeal overload Parental discord Parent-child discrepancies Family conflict with coach
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Three-Step Approach • Know Your Child • Know Yourself • Know Your Child’s Environment
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What does an emotionally healthy 12 -yearold look like? (Ages 6 -12) • Develops Competencies and Established Friendships • Has Multiple Interests • Avoids Specialization • Increases Frustration Tolerance • Experiences Huge Variation in Skills www. whosegameisitanyway. com
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What does an emotionally healthy 18 year-old look like? (Ages 13 -18) • • Growing Sense of Identity Awareness of Strengths and Limitations Move Away from Parents toward Peers Integrating Sexuality Can Think about Thinking! Increased Sense of the Needs of Others Increased Capacity to Manage Emotions Humility www. whosegameisitanyway. com
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• “When I was 16, my father was a fool. When I was 25 I was surprised at how much he had learned in nine years. ” Mark Twain www. whosegameisitanyway. com
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Know Yourself • What did you get from sports? • What went well? • What didn’t go well? Were you ever cut from a team? • What values did you acquire? • Who were your influential coaches? • What produced “sports scar tissue? ” • Rate your overall satisfaction now
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Know Your Child’s Environment • Fast-Paced, Win-at-all-Cost Culture • Academic, Artistic, and Athletic Time Commitments • Sport Program Ethos
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Promoting Enjoyment Model fun and passion in sports Pick good coaches and programs Cheer quietly from the sidelines Avoid sideline coaching Provide positive framed feedback when asked
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Prevention: What Can You Do? Protect Your Sailors • • Give your sailors a voice Ask what they like and dislike about sailing Encourage parents to become fans, not coaches Encourage parents to develop interests outside of their child’s sailing activities
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TAKE HOME POINTS FOR PARENTS 1) Use a 5: 1 ratio of accurate praise to constructive criticism 2) Avoid post-performance criticisms for first 24 hours 3) First post-game question is “How was it? ” not “Did you win or did you score? ” 4) #’s 2 and 3 are hard to do 5) Kids are not mini-adults
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TAKE HOME POINTS FOR PARENTS 6) Talent develops well into late teens 7) Make sure your child is the one who most wants to sail 8) Recognize when it’s time to step back 9) Collaborate strategically with coaches 10) Fun and joy are best predictors for long-term benefits
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