HELLO WHO ARE YOU WHO AM I THREE

HELLO! WHO ARE YOU? WHO AM I?

THREE KINDS OF ETHICS PRESENTATIONS: 1. The boring reading the ethics code kind 2. The kind the generates spontaneous incontinence (scares the carap out of you) 3. The kind that makes you feel guilty and generates existential crisis

A DANGEROUS EXAMPLE: Uh………

YOUR TURN………

IS IT UNETHICAL TO WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOUR CLIENTS?

A BRAND NEW FOURTH KIND: How does this guy still have a license?

ETHICS, SCHMETHICS: WHAT IF THE ETHICS CODE IS A BAD THING?

ETHICS, SCHMETHICS: I DON’T LIKE PEOPLE TELLING ME WHAT TO DO!

ETHICS SCMETHICS: I HAVE ANTOSOCIAL TRENDS AND MY MOM DIDN’T LOVE ME!

ETHICS, SCHMETHICS: COLLISIONS AND MOMENTS OF MEETING

SO I’VE TRAINED A LOT OF THERAPISTS……. The tyranny of the ethics code can derail the relationship Every single moment in a session is an ethical moment (ethics towards self and other) The ethical choice points

I HATE POWER POINT SLIDES!

ETHICS QUIZ Why Shouldn’t You Sleep with your Client?

WHAT IS ETHICS? MANDATORY ETHICS V. S. ASPIRATIONAL ETHICS

ASPERATIONAL AND INTRINSIC ETHICS ALWAYS DANGEROUS

VIDEO EXCERPT, MAYBE……. The Goal: at the heart of every ethical dilmma is the potential for growth and positive change (Bion’s Rule) The Edge of Ethical Growth

Fleeing into Capital T Therapist Mode Murder the client with your map HOW CAN AN ETHICS CODE HURT? Sadism and Masochism Non-internalized or superego injuctions Stops process

Psychoanalytic Theory WHAT YOU ARE IN FOR: French Continental Philosophy Sarcasm

Fun at parties? WHAT IS THEORY GOOD FOR? Impress potential mates? A useful heuristic that provides a narrative for all that buzzing data in every relational encounter?

Before the collision (what have you internalized? ) THE THREE LEVELS OF ETHICING The one during (participant observer and self reflection) The one after (metabolizing, Learning from Experience, the difficulties of Accommodation and Bion’s Second Rule)

CASEMENT’S RULE: WE CAN ONLY HOPE TO BE 51% INVESTED IN THE CLIENT’S NEEDS AND 49% ON OUR OWN.

The Mundane Say hello? POTENTIAL ETHICA MOMENTS OF MEETING Going over confidentiality The Profound I bought you this Does she look prettier than me? Will you see my son? I want to have sex with you right now

SADISTIC AND MASOCHISTIC TRENDS IN THERAPY ROOM Why are you really doing this? ? ? You don’t and can’t know Ethics codes are necessary? Recent Consultation Example: “The Annoying Client”

PSYCHOALYITIC CRAP Optimal Responsiveness and The Drop Moments of Meeting, Ethical Fascism and the Avoidance of The Other (Levinas)

BREAK: AS YOU MOVE ABOUT, HEAD TO THE LOO OR GRAB A SNACK, TAKE NOTE OF THE OTHER AND WHAT MOVES IN YOU

AS A TRAINOR AND MENTOR FOR MENTALHEALTH PROFFESIONALS: THE BIG OTHER {MORE PSYCHOANALYTIC CRAP) AND THE INTERN WHAT HAVE YOU INTERNALIZED ME AND THE DREADFUL INTERNSHIP SUPERVISOR

ALAIN BADIOU: YOU ARE ONLY ETHICAL WHEN ETHICING THE EVENT FIDELITY EVIL AND FAILING THE EVENT

Field Theory EVEN MORE PSYCHOANALYTI C CRAP Cocreation Anxiety and “The Drop” The Three points: the Dot, the line and the Mobius Strip

ATTACHMENT THEORY Mindfulness Mentalization Self Reflective Function

ALL ETHICAL DILEMAS ARE POTENTIONAL THERAPEUTIC BREAKTHROUGH S IWM, CMPS, CCRTS Enactments Homework vs. . Herework

THE TRUTH HURTS: THE NECESSITY OF ETHICAL COLLISION The therapist’s role: Awareness Acceptance Self reflection (see your heartbeat and the other’s heartbeat) Action

Let’s Ethic! SECOND VIDEO? What moves in you? Cocreated Action

IS THERE SOMETHING UNIQUE ABOUT COUNSELING CENTERS AND COLLEGE CAMPUSES? What are the unique collisions Share a dilemma?