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GRIEF AND LOSS 1 7/25/15

GRIEF AND LOSS 1 7/25/15

THE GRIEVING PROCESS 2 Grief – express deep sadness because of loss 5 stages

THE GRIEVING PROCESS 2 Grief – express deep sadness because of loss 5 stages of grieving process Denial: gives you a chance to think Anger: normal (anger management) Bargaining: promise to change Depression: short-term is normal Acceptance: learn how to live with the loss 7/25/15

FUNERALS, WAKES, AND MEMORIAL SERVICES 3 Purpose: Help the family get through the grieving

FUNERALS, WAKES, AND MEMORIAL SERVICES 3 Purpose: Help the family get through the grieving process Wake – view or watch over deceased person before funeral Funeral – ceremony in which deceased person is buried Memorial Service – ceremony to remember the deceased 7/25/15

4 WHAT ARE SOME DIFFERENT THINGS YOU’VE SEEN AT FUNERALS OR MEMORIALS? 7/25/15

4 WHAT ARE SOME DIFFERENT THINGS YOU’VE SEEN AT FUNERALS OR MEMORIALS? 7/25/15

COPING WITH LOSS Loss can cause stress. What are some physical and emotional effects

COPING WITH LOSS Loss can cause stress. What are some physical and emotional effects of stress? Headaches, stomach aches, increased blood pressure, irritability, interrupted sleep, confusion, inability to concentrate, stress-related illness 5 7/25/15

HELP FOR DEALING WITH LOSS 6 Helping others Helping yourself Show your support through

HELP FOR DEALING WITH LOSS 6 Helping others Helping yourself Show your support through simple Get plenty of rest/relaxation actions. and stick to any normal routine. Let the person know you are there Share memories. for him/her. Express your feelings. Tell the person he/she is strong Don’t blame yourself. and will learn to live with the loss. Connect with supportive, Listen attentively without understanding people. judgment. Encourage professional help if 7/25/15 needed.

SUICIDE AND NONSUICIDAL SELF-INJURY (NSSI) 7 7/25/15

SUICIDE AND NONSUICIDAL SELF-INJURY (NSSI) 7 7/25/15

A PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A TEMPORARY PROBLEM. SUICIDE: 8 Words that warn: Definition: the

A PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A TEMPORARY PROBLEM. SUICIDE: 8 Words that warn: Definition: the act of intentionally taking one’s life Why is suicide an uncomfortable topic? What are some myths or facts about suicide? “I wish I were dead. ” “I just want to go to sleep and never wake up. ” “I won’t be a problem for you much longer. ” “I can’t take it anymore. ” “This pain will be over soon. ” “Nothing matters. ” 7/25/15

9 FACTS ABOUT SUICIDE Many people who consider suicide only do so for a

9 FACTS ABOUT SUICIDE Many people who consider suicide only do so for a brief period in their life. Most people who have attempted and failed are usually grateful to be alive. Suicide could have many warning signs, however, sometimes there are few signs. Use of drugs/alcohol can put people at risk because of impaired judgment. 7/25/15

10 FACTS ABOUT SUICIDE (CONT. ) It is the 3 rd leading cause of

10 FACTS ABOUT SUICIDE (CONT. ) It is the 3 rd leading cause of death for ages 15 – 24. Depression and bipolar disorder are major risk factors. Stressful life events and low levels of communication with parents are also significant risk factors. More women attempt suicide and more men complete suicide. In 2010, males aged 15 -19 were 4 X more likely to complete suicide than females. 7/25/15

11 KEEP IN MIND! It should be noted that some people who die by

11 KEEP IN MIND! It should be noted that some people who die by suicide do not show any suicide warning signs. But about 75 percent of those who die by suicide do exhibit some warning signs, so being aware of these warning signs means we will be more able to assist a loved one in need. If you do see someone exhibiting warning signs of suicide, you need to do everything you can to help him/her, which often includes connecting him/her with professional help. Suicide. org 7/25/15

12 WARNING SIGNS FOR SUICIDE Feeling hopeless Withdrawing from family and friends; isolating Neglecting

12 WARNING SIGNS FOR SUICIDE Feeling hopeless Withdrawing from family and friends; isolating Neglecting basic needs Experiencing loss of energy Taking more risks Using alcohol and drugs Giving away personal things 7/25/15

13 GIVING AND GETTING HELP Take all talk of suicide seriously. Tell your friend

13 GIVING AND GETTING HELP Take all talk of suicide seriously. Tell your friend you are concerned about him/her. Help your friend identify 1 -2 adults to talk to (i. e. parent, counselor) and offer to go with him/her if he/she is nervous. Don’t keep concern for a friend’s safety a secret. Don’t promise to keep secrets when someone’s safety is involved. 7/25/15

14 N. S. S. I. v. Non-Suicidal Self-Injury v. Common forms of NSSI: Cutting,

14 N. S. S. I. v. Non-Suicidal Self-Injury v. Common forms of NSSI: Cutting, burning, scratching, skin-picking, hair-pulling v 90% of people who self-injure begin cutting as teens. v. Self-injury is prevalent in ALL races and economic backgrounds. 7/25/15

15 DIFFERENTIATING NSSI AND SUICIDE ATTEMPTS Characteristic Non-Suicidal Self-Injury Intent/Purpose for Behavior • •

15 DIFFERENTIATING NSSI AND SUICIDE ATTEMPTS Characteristic Non-Suicidal Self-Injury Intent/Purpose for Behavior • • To temporarily escape from psychological distress. To create change in self or environment. Suicide Attempt • • To permanently terminate consciousness/end of life. To escape unbearable psychological pain. Severity/Lethality of Method Use Low High Behavior Frequency High, sometimes more than 100 episodes. Often chronic and repetitive. Low typically 1 to 3 episodes. Number of Methods Used Multiple methods used across episodes. Single method used across episodes. Cognitive State During Self-harm • • Distressed yet hopeful. Difficulty implementing adaptive problem-solving. • • Hopeless/Helpless. Inability to problem solve. Consequences/Aftermath • Intrapersonally • • Sense of relief, calm. Temporarily reduced distress. • • Frustration, disappointment. Increased distress. • Interpersonally • Rejection, criticism from others. • Other express care and 7/25/15 concern.

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