Family magazine Family values Family is a support

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Family values Family is a support of every people. If you have some problems in your life, your family will help you. So, every family has it’s own family values. It is very important children’s education in a family, and of course, family influences on the future relations between members of the family. For example, warm and trusted relations are valued in a lot of families. Also mutual understanding and respecting each others, tolerance, making a compromise with all members of family, sometimes ability to self-sacrifice are very important components of family values. Besides, family values consist of some family traditions. They consolidate the family and unit it. Kim O Ephimova E

How to deal when your parents are really from a different world? Many teens feel that their parents don't understand them. They feel as if their parents are "from a different world". This is a normal feeling that comes from the generation gap between teens and their adult parents, it isn't a culture clash it is a generational difference. Many of us often argue with their parents about clothes, hairstyle or something else. Mothers and fathers often say: “When I was in your age I was wearing another kind of clothes, I hadn’t got such a crazy hairstyle, I didn’t listen to heavy metal. When you and your parents go shopping you even choose different shops. Every time you need new clothes your parents come with you and trying to buy things they like most, not you like. They think that their choice is better. They don’t like your style, you don’t like their’s. It’s a typical generation problem and to resolve it you should just talk and tell your parents that you’re different, it’s a new generation and new fashion and you want to be just like others.

• Lack Of Privacy Sometimes children don’t have their own room, and they have to share the room with sisters and brothers. Children can’t shut the door, stay along and relax. It is impossible to keep anything secret – nothing is safe. • Sisters And Brothers Not always brothers and sisters have good relation. They can fall out, showing up in front of friends, make nasty little comments, nag, make fun. They can’t divide different things, own room, toys, sweets etc.

• Lack Of Freedom Parents want to know what their child is doing and with whom. Children in these families must go home very early. Parents say what their child have to do, they don’t make go to different celebrations and trips. Children must obey theirs parents. Suntsova A.

1. Parents should understand sudden changes of mood of the teenagers, the strange hobbies, a new lexicon 2. Parents and teenagers should have patience, respect each other, love each other. 3. Parents should state accurately to the teenager’s fears that they could understand you. 4. Teenagers should be fair with parents and share the problems

5. Parents should listen to the problems of the child and give advice. 6. Try to stay calm and control your emotions. 7. Argue only when needed. 8. Talk clearly and reasonably.

If you follow these rules you will have good relations in a family Vasilyeva S. Daurtseva I. Molchanova P.

Agony column What do unit teenagers all over the world? Their problems! Some of this problems link with teen’s parents, the other – with lack of them. Some children have to live in children’s home and majority of them feel loneliness, jealous of their friends, classmates, who live in families. Lack of attention, care, understanding, love are also can be big problems.

On the contrary “home” teens can’t arrange with their parents about everything! If you want my opinion, teenagers, rate highly all what you have! If you constantly argue with your parents, try to control your emotions, be calm and don’t bawl at them. You should explain your position, give arguments. Discuss it, attempt to find with them decision of problems. You can also make concessions. I’m sure it will be able to solve at least some of all your “big” problems. Dyakova D.

Secrets of happy family Advices for children: – Try to control your emotions, because parents dislike when we become shout, defending our opinion. – Listen and understand your parents, if you can’t, try to pretend. – Talk clearly and reasonably, because it’s irritating to listen indistinct answers. – Make sure you understand you parent’s displeasure right. – Try to explain that you self-reliant, but your behavior should be proper. Advices for parents: – Keep in mind that the aim is to resolve the conflict, not to show your children that you are more powerful then they. – Try to be quiet, because you condition will show your children that you want to discuss problem with them and not to criticize them. – Try to understand other’s opinions. – Don’t impose your view on children, different people have different opinion. – If you understand that teen is right, tell him/her about it, it isn’t disgraceful to admit mistake. Rogova N.

Teen Relationship Advice in family So if you are a teenager and you are having problems with your parents: • Try talking things over with them • Tell them what you think But be prepared to listen to them too. • Discussing your problems calmly will help you and your parents to understand each other better, and the more mature you with them, the more likely they are to treat you as an adult. Teenagers are facing lots of problems • Say to your parents that they should remember that you are teenager , should help you to find the way out in solving your problems. It is very difficult to be young nowadays. • Try to explain to your parents that you only can be young once, and some wonderful things can happen only when Burksh A.

Editor in chief – Daysov Phodor Deputy editor – Kim Olga Designer – Rogova Natasha Picture editor – Abramova Marina Technical editor – Daysov Phodor Correspondents – Ephimova Elisaveta, Burksh Arina, Daurzeva Irina, Molchanova Polina Copy editor – Vasileva Alexandra