DISAGREEMENT SUCCESS Simon Keyes Lets disagree Which came
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DISAGREEMENT SUCCESS Simon Keyes
Let’s disagree! Which came first? or
When you disagree…? • Where does your information come from? • What life experience has led you to this position? • Is your position your own? • What emotions do you experience when you hear different positions?
Let’s disagree! • Is free market wealth creation the best means of alleviating poverty? • Is Jesus the only way to salvation? • Is a two state solution in Israel/Palestine still possible ?
When you disagree…? • Where does your information come from? • What life experience has led you to this position? • Is your position your own? • What emotions do you experience when you hear different positions?
Disagreement Success/Failure Difference Polarisation Complexity Conflict
1. The Threat? Difference
2. Polarising Factors • • • Fear Prejudice History Belief Self interest Peer pressure
3. Patterns of Escalation Curiosity Listen Maintain Connections De-personalise Seek understanding Take responsbility Complexity Take Sides Select/ignore info Assume & attribute Personalise/generalise Devalue Demonise Conflict
Strategies for moving from conflict to complexity 3 Explore threat Threat? Curiosity Take Sides Listen Maintain Connections Select/ignore info 4. Assume & attriibute Pr De-personalise ok 1 D ov Personalise/generalise Develop understanding Devalue te ala ss 5 Seek Transformation ne Conflict sc re wa Demonise 2 Depolarise Complexity e-e ea Take responsbility
Summary of possible interventions 1. De-escalate 2. De-polarise 3. Explore threat 4. Stimulate awareness 5. Seek transformation
How not to disagree…
Disagreement a way we can learn from difference “I say, love your enemies” Jesus (Matthew 5: 44) “Your enemy is your best teacher” HH The Dalai Lama
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