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Step One: Who are you avoiding? www. lehman. cuny. edu/. . . /bandaides/karim. jpg i. a. cnn. net/. . . /overview. children/story. bed. jpg 1/6/2022 Deborah B. Vilas, MS, CCLS, LMSW

Step Two: Kids withdraw or lash out for many reasons. You don’t have to know why a child is “unreachable” in order to get through to them. www. cooksonhills. org/. . . /reaching_hands_med. jpg 1/6/2022 Deborah B. Vilas, MS, CCLS, LMSW

Step Three: Ask nothing of the child. 1/6/2022 Deborah B. Vilas, MS, CCLS, LMSW

Step Four: Be irresistible, intriguing & mysterious. www. puzzlehouse. com/. . . /webpage/monalisa 1000. jpg 1/6/2022 Deborah B. Vilas, MS, CCLS, LMSW

Step Five: Go out on a limb. http: //www. bwca. cc/images/photo-rogers/Out-On-A-Limb. jpg 1/6/2022 Deborah B. Vilas, MS, CCLS, LMSW

Step Six: Have great materials. www. emalinebrook. com/images/Lidded%20 Gift%20 B. . . 1/6/2022 Deborah B. Vilas, MS, CCLS, LMSW

Step Seven: Know your comfort level. http: //content. kapowwe. com/images 8/splash_toyguns. jpg 1/6/2022 Deborah B. Vilas, MS, CCLS, LMSW

Step Eight: Respond empathically. Don’t try to fix or change the child’s emotions. http: //www. bestprices. com/cgi-bin/vlink/1583913270 BT. html 1/6/2022 Deborah B. Vilas, MS, CCLS, LMSW www. booksrevisited. com/. . . /0380570009. jpg

Final Words of Advise: HAVE FUN!!!!!! 1/6/2022 Deborah B. Vilas, MS, CCLS, LMSW