Confronting In Scripture Restore Galatians 6 1 Instruct
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Confronting In Scripture • • Restore (Galatians 6: 1) Instruct (2 Timothy 2: 25) Confront (Ezekiel 16: 2) Discipline (Proverbs 10: 17) Admonish (Colossians 3: 16) Warn (1 Thessalonians 5: 14) Correct 2 Timothy 4: 2) Rebuke (2 Timothy 4: 2) SYIS Workshop Confronting Well ? 1
Confronting In Scripture What can we learn about confronting well from these verses? (actions, attitudes, outcomes) 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Proverbs 12: 18 Proverbs 15: 1, 4 Proverbs 16: 21, 24 Proverbs 25: 15 Matthew 18: 15 SYIS Workshop 6. Galatians 6: 1 7. Ephesians 4: 15, 25 8. Proverbs 27: 5 -6 9. 1 Thessalonians 5: 14 10. 2 Timothy 2: 24, 25 Confronting Well ? 2
Who Needs This Skill? Being an effective … requires effective confronting. SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 3
Essentials For Confronting It takes … to confront well. SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 4
Confronting Well Clearly state … 1. What you observe. (behavior) 2. How it affects you and/or others. (“I” statements) 3. Your desired outcome. (explore options) SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 5
Confronting Well Clearly state … 1. What you observe. (behavior) 2. How it affects you and/or others. (“I” statements) 3. Your desired outcome. (explore options) SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 6
“Observation” & “I” Statements “Observation” and “I” statements to lovingly confront the following situation… Situation: a family member has become increasingly defensive toward you and others. • “There seems to be an increased defensiveness in your responses to me and other people lately. ” • “I feel sad about that and also frustrated when we’re unable to talk openly about things. ” SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 7
“Observation” & “I” Statements “Observation” and “I” statements to lovingly confront the following situation… Situation: a co-worker is not following through with their part of a shared project. • “The last two submissions for your part of the project have not been completed. ” • “I’m concerned about the project and upset because the work is not being shared as we had previously agreed. ” SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 8
“Observation” & “I” Statements In groups, create “Observation” and “I” statements for the following situations… 1. You notice that a family member is struggling and becoming more distant. 2. A colleague is wounding others with their offensive words and attitudes. 3. Your friend’s health has been impacted by the excessive stress they are under. 4. A neighbor’s dog is making a mess of your garden. SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 9
Practice Confronting - 1 Prep for practice: • • • In pairs. Think of a situation for practicing confronting in a peer relationship. Decide who will confront and who will be confronted. Practice the skills: • One person confronts the other. • Person being confronted receive it well. • Use three steps for effective confronting. SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 10
Scenarios For Practice • You notice that a family member is struggling and becoming more distant. • A colleague is wounding others with their offensive words and attitudes. • Your friend’s health has been impacted by the excessive stress they are under. • A neighbor’s dog is making a mess of your garden. • The neighbor in the next flat is playing loud music late at night and you can’t sleep. SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 11
Confronting Well Clearly state … 1. What you observe. (behavior) 2. How it affects you and/or others. (“I” statements) 3. Your desired outcome. (explore options) SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 12
Practice Confronting - 2 Prep for practice: • Use the same situation from the last practice. • Maintain the same roles as in the first practice. Practice the skills: • Person being confronted, be defensive and resistant. • Person doing the confronting, use the skills listed on page 42. • Person being confronted, let go of resistance after a few minutes. • Use three steps for effective confronting. SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 13
Reflect • Name one or two ways you want to become more effective in confronting. • Write what you want to remember and apply on your “Snapshots” page. SYIS Workshop Confronting Well 14
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