CONFLICT RESOLUTION 2 ND GRADE SEL LESSON WHAT

CONFLICT RESOLUTION 2 ND GRADE SEL LESSON

WHAT IS CONFLICT? o. Is a part of life o. It is normal o. It is NOT BULLYING o. Disagreement or problem that happens between two or more people

Conflict doesn’t have to be… o. A competition o. Winning and losing

Conflict Styles

FORCE o. Aggressive o. Argues o. Yells o. Threatens o. Physical

GIVE IN o. Prevents fights o. Passive o. Goes along to make others happy o. Follower

AVOID o. Runs away o. Distracts o. Leaves the room

DO THOSE WORK? Sometimes! BUT…. Handling problems by force, giving in or avoiding can create other problems!

OTHER CONFLICT STYLES

Compromise o. Gives o. Gets a little o. Listener

Sort out the Problem o. Work it out o. Find ways to solve the problem o. Helps compromise

5 STEPS to RESOLVE CONFLICT

STEP 1: COOL OFF!

When you are angry, your brain struggles with coming up with solutions!

STEP 2: Share, Check, Listen

TONE!!!!!!

Asking for Change: I messages I FEEL______________________ WHEN_____________________ _ I WOULD LIKE__________________ SO I CAN____________________

Asking for Change: ACTIVE LISTENING RESPONSE YOU SOUND___________________ BECAUSE___________________ NEXT TIME I WILL __________________ AND I

STEP 3: TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

STEP 4: BRAINSTORM

STEP 5: CHOOSE!