Athletic Parent Meeting Information from Athletic Director Vicki

Athletic Parent Meeting Information from Athletic Director Vicki Nelms

• Know your role as a parent • #1 thing parents need to do is model appropriate behavior. Kids need to see parents model this behavior in stands. • #1 toughest thing for athletes post game is getting into the car and hearing analysis, comments, coaching tips, criticism, etc. • Parent message needs to be: I love watching you play. • #1 reason kids drop out of sports is the car ride home. Expectations of Parents

• Take care of their academics • Go to class and be on time (athletes have to be in attendance at least 50% of the day to practice or play) • Recognize and respect the diverse experiences and perspectives each player brings to the team. • Uphold the Athletic Code of Conduct—will miss games if you violate the Code • Social Media—we will not tolerate athletes making disparaging remarks or anything inappropriate through Social Media. Expectations of Athletes

• Concerns expressed directly to the coach—not after a practice or game—schedule a time with coach the next day. • Notification of any schedule conflicts well in advance • Specific concerns regarding a coach’s philosophy and/or expectations • Specific medical conditions that could impact your child’s performance or safety • Ways to help your child improve (this is not playing time) Coaches Expectations from Parents

• Do not approach after a game or practice (24 hours) • Set up an appointment to meet • Be specific about concerns—these ARE NOT issues to be addressed: Playing time/team strategy/play calling/team selection/other student athletes • Athletic Director will not meet without you meeting with coach first Issues to Discuss with Coach

• Coaches Philosophy • Expectations the coach has for your child as well as all members of the team • Location and times of all practices and contests • Team requirements • Injuries • Discipline • Riding bus to and from games Expectations from Coaches

• Safety protocols—who stays with the kids until they are picked up • Weather issues Expectations from Coaches

• • • Positive Coaching Alliance Sportsmanship Shaking Hands with Teams Supporting All Kids All teams and coaches are going through Diversity Training this year. Culture Expectations

• www. clackamasathletics. com • How to sign up for alerts • We post everything here Athletic Website

• What are your child’s goals for their athletic experience? How will you support these and ensure your actions are aligned with these so that they have a positive experience? • What will you say to your child after a win and a loss to ensure they focus on the positive while keeping a growth mindset? • How do you support the coach(es), even and especially when you may not agree with them so that your child does not end up “in the middle” of an uncomfortable situation? Questions for you to ponder this year

• How do make sure your own experiences and successes, do not overshadow or intertwine with your child’s sports experiences and successes? • How will you interrupt others’ negative behavior, including that other parents and students? Questions for you to ponder this year