Adolescence Topic Abstinence Chapter 21 Lesson 2 6

Adolescence Topic: Abstinence Chapter 21, Lesson 2 6 th Grade Presenters: Desiree Moore Kristin Spahlinger Vamadria Johnson Elisabeth Wasilewski

Decision-Making II. Abstinence III. Refusal Skills IV. Consequences of Sexual Activity I.

Part I Decision-Making

n n n n Media Television Music Friends Parents Siblings Extended family n n Religious organizations Cultural traditions Associations School organizations (sports, clubs)

n. Adolescence development is a time for personal n. Adolescents will be exposed to new things and will face greater challenges in everyday life n. Important to keep influences in mind when making a decision

Six Steps of Decision-Making Process 1. 2. 3. State the situation List the options Weigh the possible outcomes

Six Steps of Decision-Making Process 4. 5. 6. Consider your values Make a decision and act Evaluate the decision

Making Sexual Decisions Physical and emotional changes during adolescence can lead to confusion and concern n Important to know the difference between feelings of sexual attraction and love Remember: You DO NOT have to act on sexual impulses! n

Making Sexual Decisions n n Many teens act on sexual impulses out of curiosity, pressure from others, or a desire to be an adult Decision to engage in sexual activity is the biggest and most important decision a teen can make due to lifelong implications

Making Sexual Decisions n It is easier to make good judgments when you have a clear mind are not feeling pressured Remember: It is much easier to make decisions about your limits BEFORE you get involved in sexual activity “You have to stand for what you believe in. And sometimes you have to stand alone. ” ~ Queen Latifah

Part II Abstinence

n. Definition of abstinence n. Five steps to help you stay abstinent

Definition of Abstinence The conscious decision to avoid harmful behaviors, including sexual activity before marriage and the use of tobacco, alcohol, and other drugs.

How can I stay abstinent? 1. Establish your own priorities. • Priorities are those things that are most important to you.

How can I stay abstinent? 2. Set limits on how you are willing to express affection.

How can I stay abstinent? 3. Share your feelings with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

How can I stay abstinent? 4. Discuss your feelings with a trusted adult.

How can I stay abstinent? 5. Steer clear of high pressure situations. n n n Dark rooms Unsupervised settings Don’t use alcohol or other drugs that may affect judgement 6. If you are currently sexually active, re-evaluate your decision.

It’s great to wait!

Part III Refusal Skills

Refusal Skills n Clear communication with partner n Verbal and non-verbal actions send the same message n Clear body language

Refusal Skills n Self-control n A person’s ability to override emotions and make a responsible decision n n No conflicting actions Assertiveness

Part IV Consequences of Sexual Activity

Negative Consequences of Sexual Activity Unplanned pregnancy n Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) n Loss of self-respect n Negative effects on social relationships n

Unplanned Pregnancy n n Complicates adolescent life: Ø adds serious responsibility Ø give up child for adoption is a possibility 86% of teen pregnancies are unplanned Giving birth at a young age increases health risks for both the mother and child Limits the teens’ future Ø Drop out of school to support the child Ø Give up future plans for college, employment, etc.

Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) n n n Spread from person to person through sexual contact People ages 15 -19 are at greatest risk One in four sexually active adolescents will become infected before graduating from high school STDs require medical treatment Can make a person sterile (unable to conceive a child)

Examples of STDs n n n AIDS Genital Herpes Syphilis Chlamydia Gonorrhea

Some Statistics on STDs *** http: //www. mchb. hrsa. gov/chusa 02/main_pages/page_37. htm

Mental and Social Affects n n Loss of self-respect Diminished self-image Tension between boyfriend/girlfriend relationships Sexual activities may lead to unshared feelings, emotional attachment and other dilemmas

When in doubt…