6 Principles Liking People like those who like

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6 Principles

6 Principles

Liking – People like those who like them. Action: Uncover the real similarities and

Liking – People like those who like them. Action: Uncover the real similarities and offer genuine praise. 1. 2. 3. Win friends People stand physically closer to one another after learning they shared political beliefs & social values. Establish the bond early and it will carry you forward.

Reciprocity – People repay in kind. Action: Give what you want to receive. 1.

Reciprocity – People repay in kind. Action: Give what you want to receive. 1. 2. Smile at someone, watch them smile back. Managers can elicit the desired behavior from coworkers & employees by displaying it first. Whether it’s a sense of trust, a spirit of cooperation, or a pleasant demeanor, leaders model the behavior they want to see in others.

Consistency – People align with their clear commitments. Action: Make their commitments active, public

Consistency – People align with their clear commitments. Action: Make their commitments active, public & voluntary. 1. 2. 3. Take a stand stick to it. Once spoken out loud or written (made explicit), it’s more powerful. So be verbal and publicly visible.

Social Proof – People follow the lead of similar others. Action: Use peer power

Social Proof – People follow the lead of similar others. Action: Use peer power whenever it’s available. 1. 2. 3. Social creatures that we are, human beings rely heavily on the people around them for cues on how to think, feel & act. Persuasion can be extremely effective when it comes from peers. Again, influence is often best exerted horizontally rather than vertically.

Authority – People refer to the experts. Action: Expose your expertise; don’t assume it’s

Authority – People refer to the experts. Action: Expose your expertise; don’t assume it’s self -evident. 1. 2. 3. 4. “Believe an expert. ” That may or may not be good advise, but it’s what we do. Leaders are to ensure they establish their own expertise before they work to influence. Display your awards & credentials. In a social engagement, lightly touch on your experience in a natural way.

Scarcity People want more of what they can have less of. Action: Highlight unique

Scarcity People want more of what they can have less of. Action: Highlight unique benefits & exclusive benefits. 1. Potential losses figure far more heavily in a managers decision making than potential gains.

Persuasion Dianne Garrett Business Communication, MGT 309 University of North Carolina at Greensboro Writing

Persuasion Dianne Garrett Business Communication, MGT 309 University of North Carolina at Greensboro Writing that Works (2010). Oliu, Brusaw, & Alred