23 Dying Death and Hospice 1 Discuss the

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 1. Discuss the stages of grief Define the following terms: terminal illness a disease or condition that will eventually cause death. grief deep distress or sorrow over a loss.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Transparency 23 -1: Stages of Dying • Denial: “No, not me” • Anger: “Why me? ” • Bargaining: “Yes me, but…” • Depression: need to mourn and review their lives • Acceptance: preparing for death

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 1. Discuss the stages of grief REMEMBER: Not every person goes through every one of these stages, and not every person goes through them in this order.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 2. Describe the grief process The following are common reactions to the death of a loved one: • Shock: especially at one’s own feelings • Denial: usually lasts a short time • Anger: at themselves, God, the doctors, even at the person who died • Guilt: wishing they had done more, guilty because they are still living • Regret: for what they did or did not do • Sadness: depression, headaches, or insomnia • Loneliness: missing the person and having painful memories

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 3. Discuss how feelings and attitudes about death differ These factors can influence feelings and attitudes about death: • Experience with death • Personality type • Religious beliefs • Cultural background

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 3. Discuss how feelings and attitudes about death differ Think about this question: How do your own experiences and your cultural background influence your feelings about death?

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 4. Discuss how to care for a dying resident Define the following term: advance directives legal documents that allow people to choose what medical care they wish to have if they are unable to make those decisions themselves.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 4. Discuss how to care for a dying resident When caring for dying residents, an NA must take special notice of these issues: • Diminished senses • Care of mouth and nose • Skin care • Comfort • Environment • Emotional and spiritual support

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 4. Discuss how to care for a dying resident REMEMBER: Advance directives must be honored. The care team’s personal feelings about them are not relevant.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 5. Describe ways to treat dying residents and their families with dignity and how to honor their rights Think about these questions: How can an NA treat residents with dignity when they are approaching death? Which of the Residents’ Rights may apply when a resident is close to death?

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Transparency 23 -2: Rights to Remember when Caring for the Terminally Ill • The right to refuse treatment • The right to have visitors of their own choosing • The right to privacy

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 5. Describe ways to treat dying residents and their families with dignity and how to honor their rights NAs should remember these points about the right to refuse treatment: • Caregivers need to remember that whether they agree or disagree with the decisions, the choice is not theirs, but belongs to the person involved. • Sometimes, when residents are not capable of making a decision, they have told their families how they wish things to be done. Caregivers should be supportive of family members and not judge them. They are probably following the person’s wishes.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 5. Describe ways to treat dying residents and their families with dignity and how to honor their rights Think about these questions: Have you ever cared for someone who did not want more treatment? How did you feel about that?

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 5. Describe ways to treat dying residents and their families with dignity and how to honor their rights NAs should remember these points about the right to have visitors: • It may be inconvenient to have visitors coming and going at odd hours, but when death is close, it is an emotional time for all those involved. • Saying goodbye can be a very important part of dealing with a loved one’s death. • It may also be very reassuring to the dying person to have someone in the room, even if they do not seem to be aware of their surroundings.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 5. Describe ways to treat dying residents and their families with dignity and how to honor their rights Think about this question related to a dying resident’s right to privacy: Privacy is a basic right, but why may privacy for visiting be even more important now?

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Handout 23 -1: The Dying Person’s Bill of Rights I have the right to: • be treated as a living human being until I die. • maintain a sense of hopefulness, however changing its focus may be. • be cared for by those who can maintain a sense of hopefulness, however changing this may be. • express my feelings and emotions about my approaching death in my own way. • participate in decisions concerning my care. • expect continuing medical and nursing attentions even though “cure” goals must be changed to “comfort” goals. • not die alone. • be free from pain. • have my questions answered honestly. • not be deceived.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Handout 23 -1: The Dying Person’s Bill of Rights (cont’d) • • I have the right to: have help from and for my family in accepting my death. die in peace and dignity. retain my individuality and not be judged for my decisions which may be contrary to beliefs of others. • discuss and enlarge my religious and/or spiritual experiences, whatever these may mean to others. • expect that the sanctity of the human body will be respected after death. • be cared for by caring, sensitive, knowledgeable people who will attempt to understand my needs and will be able to gain some satisfaction in helping me face my death. (This was created at a workshop on “The Terminally Ill Patient and the Helping Person, ” sponsored by Southwestern Michigan In-service Education Council, and appeared in the American Journal of Nursing, Vol. 75, January, 1975, p. 911. )

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 5. Describe ways to treat dying residents and their families with dignity and how to honor their rights Think about this question: Why do you think the rights outlined in The Dying Person’s Bill of Rights are important for a dying person?

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Transparency 23 -3: Ways to Treat Dying People and Their Families with Dignity • Respect their wishes in all ways possible. • Do not isolate or avoid a resident who is dying. • Do not make promises that cannot or should not be kept. • Continue to involve the dying person in facility activities. • Listen if they want to talk. • Do not babble or act especially cheerful or sad. • Keep the resident comfortable. • Assure privacy when it is desired. • Respect the privacy of the family and other visitors. • Help with the family’s physical comfort.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 6. Define the goals of a hospice program Define the following terms: hospice care holistic, compassionate care given to dying people and their families. palliative care that focuses on the comfort and dignity of a person who is very sick and/or dying, rather than on curing him or her.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 6. Define the goals of a hospice program Think about this question: Why does hospice care focus on meeting physical, emotional, social and spiritual needs rather than on wellness or recovery?

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 6. Define the goals of a hospice program NAs should remember these guidelines for hospice care: • Be a good listener. • Respect privacy and independence. • Be sensitive to individual needs. • Be aware of your own feelings. • Recognize the stress. • Take good care of yourself. • Take a break when you need to.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 6. Define the goals of a hospice program Think about this question: Are the skills and attitudes needed in providing hospice care any different from those required when caring for other residents?

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 6. Define the goals of a hospice program REMEMBER: It is very important that NAs find a productive way to deal with their own feelings when doing hospice work.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 7. Explain common signs of approaching death Define the following term: Cheyne-Stokes respirations alternating periods of slow, irregular breathing and rapid, shallow breathing.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Transparency 23 -4: Signs of Approaching Death • Blurred and failing vision • Unfocused eyes • Impaired speech • Diminished sense of touch • Loss of movement, muscle tone, and feeling • Rising body temperature or below-normal temperature • Decreasing blood pressure • Weak pulse that is abnormally slow or rapid • Alternating periods of slow, irregular respirations and rapid, shallow respirations (Cheyne-Stokes) • Rattling or gurgling sound when breathing • Cold, pale skin • Mottling, spotting, or blotching of skin • Perspiration • Incontinence • Disorientation or confusion

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 8. List changes that may occur in the human body after death Define the following term: rigor mortis the Latin term for the temporary condition after death in which the muscles in the body become stiff and rigid.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 8. List changes that may occur in the human body after death The following changes occur after death: • No heartbeat, pulse, respiration, or blood pressure • Rigor mortis • Eyelids partially open; eyes in fixed stare • Mouth may remain open • Incontinence

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 9. Describe postmortem care Define the following term: postmortem care of the body after death.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 9. Describe postmortem care NAs should remember these postmortem care guidelines: • Rigor mortis may make body difficult to move. Talk to the nurse if you need assistance. • Bathe body gently and place drainage pads where needed. • Do not remove tubes or other equipment. • Put in dentures if instructed by the nurse. • Close eyes.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 9. Describe postmortem care Postmortem care guidelines (cont’d): • Position body. Put a small pillow under head. • Follow facility policy on personal items. • Strip the bed after body is gone. • Open windows to air the room. Straighten room. • Respect wishes of family and friends. • Document procedure.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 9. Describe postmortem care REMEMBER: Facilities may have special policies on postmortem care. NAs must always follow facility policies.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 9. Describe postmortem care Think about these questions: • Do you think you would have difficulty touching a dead body? • How can an NA show emotional support to family members after a death?

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 9. Describe postmortem care Home Care Focus REMEMBER: It is important for an HHA to ask family members of the deceased client what the HHA can do to help. She may answer the phone, make coffee or a meal, supervise children, or keep family members company.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 10. Understand respect different postmortem practices REMEMBER: There is no right way to grieve. NAs and HHAs will see many different responses to a loved one’s death, and their job is to respond professionally. Postmortem practices that the family and/or others perform must be respected.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 10. Understand respect different postmortem practices REMEMBER: It is important to check with a supervisor before attending a resident’s or client’s funeral.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 10. Understand respect different postmortem practices Postmortem practices may include the following, depending on the cultural background, religion, and personal preferences of the resident and the resident’s family: • Wake • Viewing • Open casket funeral • Closed casket funeral • Cremation • Burial ceremony

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 10. Understand respect different postmortem practices REMEMBER: Whether a resident was religious or non-religious, the NA’s job is to respect the family’s customs and choices.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice 10. Understand respect different postmortem practices Think about this question: What different postmortem practices (funerals, etc. ) have you seen? What is common in your family or culture?

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam Multiple Choice. Choose the correct answer. 1. Which of the following is an example of a resident who is going through the bargaining stage of the grief process, according to Dr. Kubler-Ross? (A) The resident makes a new will and tells her family about funeral arrangements. (B) The resident insists that a mistake was made on her blood tests. (C) The resident tells her sister that if she lives, she will start volunteering every day at the senior center. (D) The resident feels sad most of the time and does not want to see anyone.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam 1. A terminally ill resident discussed his funeral arrangements with his family. He lets them know that he is concerned about their well-being after he is gone. He says he wants to spend as much time as possible with them before he dies. Which stage of dying is this resident in? (A) Denial (B) Anger (C) Bargaining (D) Acceptance

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam 1. Which of the following statements is true of the grief process? (A) A family member may be shocked after the death of a loved one, even if she was aware that the person was dying. (B) All people grieve in the same way, following the same process. (C) Missing a person who has died is an uncommon response to death. (D) Feeling angry after a person has died is unhealthy and unnatural. 2. One factor that influences personal attitudes about death is (A) A person’s diet (B) A person’s culture (C) A person’s weight (D) A person’s height

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam 1. When caring for a dying resident’s diminished senses, a nursing assistant should (A) Ask many questions to see what is comfortable for the resident (B) Turn on as many lights as possible (C) Observe body language (D) Encourage all visitors to remain silent 2. The last sense to leave the body is usually the sense of (A) Hearing (B) Sight (C) Taste (D) Touch

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam 1. How can NAs give emotional support to residents who are dying? (A) By leaving dying residents alone as much as possible (B) By listening more (C) By sharing their religious beliefs with residents (D) By letting residents know that it will all be over soon 2. One way that NAs can respect the rights of residents who are dying is to (A) Keep visitors away from residents (B) Let the family know if the NA does not agree with residents’ medical decisions (C) Promise residents that they will get better (D) Promote privacy for residents

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam 1. Which of the following is part of The Dying Person’s Bill of Rights? (A) I have the right to be told what to believe about life after death. (B) I have the right to be cared for by someone who will always tell me what she thinks I want to hear. (C) I have the right to have my questions answered honestly. (D) I have the right to be treated with forced cheerfulness. 2. Which of the following is true of advance directives? (A) Advance directives must be honored as long as family members agree with the resident’s decisions. (B) Advance directives must be honored unless NAs do not agree with the diagnosis. (C) Advance directives must be honored. (D) Advance directives should be changed when the resident’s spiritual leader does not agree with the resident’s decision.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam 1. What does palliative care involve? (A) The resident’s recovery (B) Pain relief and comfort (C) Teaching the resident to care for himself (D) Curing the resident’s illness 2. An attitude that is helpful in hospice work is (A) Being sensitive to individual needs (B) Pushing residents to talk about their feelings (C) Joining in the conversation during personal visits (D) Helping the resident embrace the NA’s faith before death

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam 1. Which of the following is a sign of approaching death? (A) Decreasing blood pressure (B) Sharper vision (C) Warm, dry skin (D) Heightened sense of touch 2. The NA’s responsibilities regarding postmortem care include (A) Placing drainage pads where needed (B) Removing tubes from the dead resident (C) Removing equipment from the room (D) Examining the body to help determine the cause of death

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam 1. _______ is the special care that focuses on the dignity and comfort of a dying person. (A) Postmortem (B) Cheyne-Stokes (C) Hospice (D) Terminal 2. Which of the following statements is true? (A) Most people respond in a vocal and emotional way after a loved one has died. (B) Dealing with the death of a loved one will take approximately two months. (C) NAs may grieve for residents after they die. (D) NAs will be expected to attend residents’ funerals.

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam 1. Burning of a body until it is reduced to ashes is called (A) Burial (B) Cremation (C) Memorial (D) Eulogy 2. When a dead person’s body is displayed at a funeral service, it is called a(n) ______ funeral. (A) Closed casket (B) Visible body (C) Open casket (D) Urn displayed

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice Exam 1. A watch over a dead body before burial that often involves singing, eating, drinking, and storytelling is called a (A) Viewing (B) Wake (C) Burial (D) Eulogy

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice CHAPTER 23 PRACTICE 1. The last sense to leave the body is usually the sense of (A) Hearing (B) Sight (C) Taste (D) Touch 2. Which of the following is part of The Dying Person’s Bill of Rights? (A) I have the right to be told what to believe about life after death. (B) I have the right to be cared for by someone who will always tell me what she thinks I want to hear. (C) I have the right to have my questions answered honestly. (D) I have the right to be treated with forced cheerfulness. 3. A watch over a dead body before burial that often involves singing, eating, drinking, and storytelling is called a (A) Viewing (B) Wake (C) Burial (D) Eulogy

23 Dying, Death, and Hospice CHAPTER 23 PRACTICE ANSWERS 1. A-HEARING 2. C-I HAVE THE RIGHT TO MY QUESTIONS ANSWERED HONESTLY 3. B- WAKE