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 ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻻﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom

ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻻﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom of Putting Limits with Others ﻓﻲ ﻋﻠﻘﺖ ﺍﻥ . ﻟﻐﺮﻳﺐ ﻛﻔﻚ ﺻﻔﻘﺖ ﺍﻥ ﺻﺎﺣﺒﻚ ﺿﻤﻨﺖ ﺍﻥ ﺍﺑﻨﻲ ﻳﺎ ﻫﺬﺍ ﻓﺎﻓﻌﻞ ﺍﺫﺍ . ﻓﻴﻚ ﻛﻼﻡ ﻓﻲ ﺍﺧﺬﺕ ﺍﻥ ﻓﻤﻚ ﻛﻼﻡ ﺻﺎﺣﺒﻚ ﻳﺪ ﻓﻲ ﺻﺮﺕ ﺍﺫﺍ ﻧﻔﺴﻚ ﻭﻧﺞ “My son, if you become surety for your friend, If you have shaken hands in pledge for a stranger, You are snared by the words of your mouth; You are taken by the words of your mouth. So do this, my son, and deliver yourself; For you have come into the hand of your friend:

 ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻻﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom

ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻻﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom of Putting Limits with Others ﺍﺟﻔﺎﻧﻚ ﻭﻻ ﻧﻮﻣﺎ ﻋﻴﻨﻚ ﺗﻌﻂ ﻻ . ﺻﺎﺣﺒﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻭﺍﻟﺢ ﺗﺮﺍﻡ ﺍﺫﻫﺐ 1 : 6 )ﺃﻢ . ﺍﻟﺼﻴﺎﺩ ﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﻛﺎﻟﻌﺼﻔﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﻴﺪ ﻣﻦ ﻛﺎﻟﻀﺒﻲ ﻧﻔﺴﻚ ﻧﺞ . ﻧﻌﺎﺳﺎ (5 – Go and humble yourself; Plead with your friend. Give no sleep to your eyes, Nor slumber to your eyelids. Deliver yourself like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, and like a bird from the hand of the fowler” (Prov. 6: 1 -5)

 ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻻﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom

ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻻﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom of Putting Limits with Others ﺍﻟﻰ ﻳﻨﺎﺑﻴﻌﻚ ﺗﻔﺾ ﻻ . ﺑﺌﺮﻙ ﻣﻦ ﺟﺎﺭﻳﺔ ﻭﻣﻴﺎﻫﺎ ﺟﺒﻚ ﻣﻦ ﻣﻴﺎﻫﺎ ﺍﺷﺮﺏ . ﻣﻌﻚ ﻻﺟﺎﻧﺐ ﻭﻟﻴﺲ ﻭﺣﺪﻙ ﻟﻚ ﻟﺘﻜﻦ . ﺍﻟﺸﻮﺍﺭﻉ ﻓﻲ ﻣﻴﺎﻩ ﺳﻮﺍﻗﻲ ﺍﻟﺨﺎﺭﺝ (18 – 15 : 5 )ﺃﻢ . ﺷﺒﺎﺑﻚ ﺑﺎﻣﺮﺍﺓ ﻭﺍﻓﺮﺡ ﻣﺒﺎﺭﻛﺎ ﻳﻨﺒﻮﻋﻚ ﻟﻴﻜﻦ “Drink water from your own cistern, and running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets? Let them be only your own, and not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice with the wife of your youth. ” (Prov. 5: 15 -18)

 ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻻﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom

ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻻﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom of Putting Limits with Others ﺟﺴﺪﺍ ﺍﻻﺛﻨﺎﻥ ﻭﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺑﺎﻣﺮﺍﺗﻪ ﻭﻳﻠﺘﺼﻖ ﻭﺍﻣﻪ ﺍﺑﺎﻩ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻳﺘﺮﻙ ﻻ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺟﻤﻌﻪ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻭﺍﺣﺪ ﺟﺴﺪ ﺑﻞ ﺍﺛﻨﻴﻦ ﺑﻌﺪ ﻟﻴﺴﺎ ﺍﺫﺍ . ﻭﺍﺣﺪﺍ (6 – 5 : 19 )ﻣﺖ . ﺍﻧﺴﺎﻥ ﻳﻔﺮﻗﻪ “a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate. ” (Math 19: 5 -6)

 ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺲ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom

ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺲ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom of Putting Limits with Yourself (3 : 141 )ﻣﺰ ﺷﻔﺘﻲ ﺑﺎﺏ ﺍﺣﻔﻆ ﻟﻔﻤﻲ ﺣﺎﺭﺳﺎ ﺭﺏ ﻳﺎ ﺍﺟﻌﻞ “Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; Keep watch over the door of my lips. ” (Psalms 141: 3) ﻟﺸﻔﺘﻲ ﺣﺼﻴﻨﺎ ﻭﺑﺎﺑﺎ ﻟﻔﻤﻲ ﺣﺎﻓﻈﺎ ﺭﺏ ﻳﺎ ﺿﻊ (140 ﻣﺰ ﺍﻷﺠﺒﻴﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻨﻮﻡ ﺻﻼﺓ ) “O Lord, set a watch on my mouth and a strong door for my lips. ” (Compline prayer from Agpeya Pslams 140)

 ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺲ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom

ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻟﻨﻔﺲ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom of Putting Limits with Yourself (1 : 31 )ﺍﻱ ﻋﺬﺭﺍﺀ ﻓﻲ ﺍﺗﻄﻠﻊ ﻓﻜﻴﻒ ﻟﻌﻴﻨﻲ ﻗﻄﻌﺖ ﻋﻬﺪﺍ “I have made a covenant with my eyes; Why then should I look upon a young woman? ” (Job 31: 1) ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﺷﺒﺎﺑﻚ ﺍﻣﺮﺍﺓ ﻭﺑﻴﻦ ﺑﻴﻨﻚ ﺍﻟﺸﺎﻫﺪ ﻫﻮ ﺍﻟﺮﺏ ﺍﻥ ﺍﺟﻞ ﻣﻦ ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﻓﻘﻠﺘﻢ (14 : 2 ﻣﻼ ) ﻋﻬﺪﻙ ﻭﺍﻣﺮﺍﺓ ﻗﺮﻳﻨﺘﻚ ﻭﻫﻲ ﺑﻬﺎ ﻏﺪﺭﺕ ﺍﻧﺖ “Yet you say, “For what reason? ” Because the LORD has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously; Yet she is your companion and your wife by covenant. ” (Malachi 2: 14)

 ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻟﻄﻤﻮﺡ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom

ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 1 The Wisdom in Putting Limits ﺍﻟﻄﻤﻮﺡ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻭﺩ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ Wisdom of Putting Limits to Ambitions ( ﺍﻟﻘﺪﺍﺱ )ﻣﻦ ﺻﺎﻟﺢ ﻋﻤﻞ ﻛﻞ ﻓﻲ ﻧﺰﺩﺍﺩ ﺷىﺀ ﻛﻞ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻜﻔﺎﻑ ﻟﻨﺎ ﻛﺎﻥ ﺇﺫ that we too, having sufficiency in every thing always, may abound in every good deed. (St. Basil Liturgy) (15 : 4 )ﻳﻊ ﺫﺍﻙ ﺍﻭ ﻫﺬﺍ ﻧﻔﻌﻞ ﻭﻋﺸﻨﺎ ﺍﻟﺮﺏ ﺷﺎﺀ ﺍﻥ ﺗﻘﻮﻟﻮﺍ ﺍﻥ ﻋﻮﺽ “Instead you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we shall live and do this or that. ” (James 4: 15)

 ﻭﺍﻟﻐﺪ ﺍﻟﻴﻮﻡ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 2 The Wisdom of Today & Tomorrow )ﻣﺖ ﺷﺮﻩ ﺍﻟﻴﻮﻡ

ﻭﺍﻟﻐﺪ ﺍﻟﻴﻮﻡ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 2 The Wisdom of Today & Tomorrow )ﻣﺖ ﺷﺮﻩ ﺍﻟﻴﻮﻡ ﻳﻜﻔﻲ ﻟﻨﻔﺴﻪ ﺑﻤﺎ ﻳﻬﺘﻢ ﺍﻟﻐﺪ ﻻﻥ (34 : 6 ﻟﻠﻐﺪ ﺗﻬﺘﻤﻮﺍ ﻓﻼ “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble. ” (Math 6: 34) (16 : 5 )ﺍﻑ ﺷﺮﻳﺮﺓ ﺍﻻﻳﺎﻡ ﻻﻥ ﺍﻟﻮﻗﺖ ﻣﻔﺘﺪﻳﻦ “redeeming the time, because the days are evil. ” (Eph 5: 16)

 ﺍﻟﺘﻠﻤﺬﺓ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 3 The Wisdom of Discipleship ﻃﺮﻗﻚ ﻛﻞ ﻓﻲ . ﺗﻌﺘﻤﺪ ﻻ

ﺍﻟﺘﻠﻤﺬﺓ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 3 The Wisdom of Discipleship ﻃﺮﻗﻚ ﻛﻞ ﻓﻲ . ﺗﻌﺘﻤﺪ ﻻ ﻓﻬﻤﻚ ﻭﻋﻠﻰ ﻗﻠﺒﻚ ﺑﻜﻞ ﺍﻟﺮﺏ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺗﻮﻛﻞ ﺍﺗﻖ ﻧﻔﺴﻚ ﻋﻴﻨﻲ ﻓﻲ ﺣﻜﻴﻤﺎ ﺗﻜﻦ ﻻ . ﺳﺒﻠﻚ ﻳﻘﻮﻡ ﻭﻫﻮ ﺍﻋﺮﻓﻪ (7 – 5 : 3 )ﺍﻡ . ﺍﻟﺸﺮ ﻋﻦ ﻭﺍﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﻟﺮﺏ “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths. Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the LORD and depart from evil. ”(Prov. 3: 5 -7)

 ﺍﻟﺘﻠﻤﺬﺓ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 3 The Wisdom of Discipleship ﻃﺮﻳﻖ ﺍﺭﻳﺘﻚ . ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻚ ﺳﻨﻮ ﻓﺘﻜﺜﺮ

ﺍﻟﺘﻠﻤﺬﺓ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 3 The Wisdom of Discipleship ﻃﺮﻳﻖ ﺍﺭﻳﺘﻚ . ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻚ ﺳﻨﻮ ﻓﺘﻜﺜﺮ ﺍﻗﻮﺍﻟﻲ ﻭﺍﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﺑﻨﻲ ﻳﺎ ﺍﺳﻤﻊ ﻓﻼ ﺳﺮﺕ ﺍﺫﺍ . ﺍﻻﺳﺘﻘﺎﻣﺔ ﺳﺒﻞ ﻫﺪﻳﺘﻚ ﺍﻟﺤﻜﻤﺔ – 10 : 4 )ﺃﻢ . ﺗﻌﺜﺮ ﻓﻼ ﺳﻌﻴﺖ ﻭﺍﺫﺍ ﺧﻄﻮﺍﺗﻚ ﺗﻀﻴﻖ (12 “Hear, my son, and receive my sayings, and the years of your life will be many. I have taught you in the way of wisdom; I have led you in right paths. When you walk, your steps will not be hindered, and when you run, you will not stumble. ” (Prov. 4: 10 -12)

 ﺍﻹﻋﺘﺬﺍﺭ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 4 The Wisdom of Apologizing ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻻﺧﻴﻚ ﺍﻥ ﺗﺬﻛﺮﺕ ﻭﻫﻨﺎﻙ ﺍﻟﻤﺬﺑﺢ

ﺍﻹﻋﺘﺬﺍﺭ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 4 The Wisdom of Apologizing ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻻﺧﻴﻚ ﺍﻥ ﺗﺬﻛﺮﺕ ﻭﻫﻨﺎﻙ ﺍﻟﻤﺬﺑﺢ ﺍﻟﻰ ﻗﺮﺑﺎﻧﻚ ﻗﺪﻣﺖ ﻓﺎﻥ ﻣﻊ ﺍﺻﻄﻠﺢ ﺍﻭﻻ ﻭﺍﺫﻫﺐ ﺍﻟﻤﺬﺑﺢ ﻗﺪﺍﻡ ﻗﺮﺑﺎﻧﻚ ﻫﻨﺎﻙ ﻓﺎﺗﺮﻙ . ﻋﻠﻴﻚ ﺩﻣﺖ ﻣﺎ ﺳﺮﻳﻌﺎ ﻟﺨﺼﻤﻚ ﻣﺮﺍﺿﻴﺎ ﻛﻦ . ﻗﺮﺑﺎﻧﻚ ﻭﻗﺪﻡ ﺗﻌﺎﻝ ﻭﺣﻴﻨﺌﺬ ﺍﺧﻴﻚ “Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are

 ﺍﻹﻋﺘﺬﺍﺭ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 4 The Wisdom of Apologizing ﻭﻳﺴﻠﻤﻚ ﺍﻟﻘﺎﺿﻲ ﺍﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺨﺼﻢ ﻳﺴﻠﻤﻚ ﻟﺌﻼ

ﺍﻹﻋﺘﺬﺍﺭ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 4 The Wisdom of Apologizing ﻭﻳﺴﻠﻤﻚ ﺍﻟﻘﺎﺿﻲ ﺍﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺨﺼﻢ ﻳﺴﻠﻤﻚ ﻟﺌﻼ ﺍﻟﻄﺮﻳﻖ ﻓﻲ ﻣﻌﻪ ﺗﺨﺮﺝ ﻻ ﻟﻚ ﺍﻗﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻖ . ﺍﻟﺴﺠﻦ ﻓﻲ ﻓﺘﻠﻘﻰ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻃﻲ ﺍﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﻘﺎﺿﻲ (26 - 23 : 5 )ﻣﺖ . ﺍﻻﺧﻴﺮ ﺍﻟﻔﻠﺲ ﺗﻮﻓﻲ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻫﻨﺎﻙ ﻣﻦ on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison. Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny. ” (Math 5: 23 -26)

 ﺍﻟﺘﺪﺑﻴﺮ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 6 The Wisdom of Leadership ﻓﺒﺴﺮﻭﺭ ﺍﻟﺮﺍﺣﻢ ﻓﺒﺎﺟﺘﻬﺎﺩ ﺍﻟﻤﺪﺑﺮ ﻓﺒﺴﺨﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻤﻌﻄﻲ

ﺍﻟﺘﺪﺑﻴﺮ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 6 The Wisdom of Leadership ﻓﺒﺴﺮﻭﺭ ﺍﻟﺮﺍﺣﻢ ﻓﺒﺎﺟﺘﻬﺎﺩ ﺍﻟﻤﺪﺑﺮ ﻓﺒﺴﺨﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻤﻌﻄﻲ ﺍﻟﻮﻋﻆ ﻓﻔﻲ ﺍﻟﻮﺍﻋﻆ ﺍﻡ (8 : 12 )ﺭﻭ “he who exhorts, in exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness. ”(Rom 12: 8) (14 : 11 )ﺃﻢ . ﺍﻟﻤﺸﻴﺮﻳﻦ ﻓﺒﻜﺜﺮﺓ ﺍﻟﺨﻼﺹ ﺍﻣﺎ ﺍﻟﺸﻌﺐ ﻳﺴﻘﻂ ﺗﺪﺑﻴﺮ ﻻ ﺣﻴﺚ “Where there is no counsel, the people fall; But in the multitude of counselors there is safety. ” (Prov. 11: 14)

 ﺍﻟﺘﺪﺑﻴﺮ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 6 The Wisdom of Leadership ﻧﻔﻮﺳﻜﻢ ﻻﺟﻞ ﻳﺴﻬﺮﻭﻥ ﻻﻧﻬﻢ ﻭﺍﺧﻀﻌﻮﺍ ﻣﺮﺷﺪﻳﻜﻢ

ﺍﻟﺘﺪﺑﻴﺮ ﺣﻜﻤﺔ. 6 The Wisdom of Leadership ﻧﻔﻮﺳﻜﻢ ﻻﺟﻞ ﻳﺴﻬﺮﻭﻥ ﻻﻧﻬﻢ ﻭﺍﺧﻀﻌﻮﺍ ﻣﺮﺷﺪﻳﻜﻢ ﺍﻃﻴﻌﻮﺍ ﺍﻧﻴﻦ ﻻ ﺑﻔﺮﺡ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻳﻔﻌﻠﻮﺍ ﻟﻜﻲ ﺣﺴﺎﺑﺎ ﻳﻌﻄﻮﻥ ﺳﻮﻑ ﻛﺎﻧﻬﻢ (17 : 13 )ﻋﺐ ﻟﻜﻢ ﻧﺎﻓﻊ ﻏﻴﺮ ﻫﺬﺍ ﻻﻥ “Obey those who rule over you, and be submissive, for they watch out for your souls, as those who must give account. Let them do so with joy and not with grief, for that would be unprofitable for you. ”(Heb 13: 17)